Why don't i get along with other women?

I'm a 23 year old female and I don't have any female friends. most of my friends, if not all, are males. when i'm around other women I seem to feel uncomfortable, but when i'm around men I feel special..I find myself constantly competing with my sisters to get all the love and attention from our parents..I just can't put my finger on what's wrong with me

Answer:
Your family life probably has a lot to do with how you see women. There maybe a jealousy factor now given the competition then. I have a similar issue in that I grew up jealous of women because they usually had their dad growing up while I didn't. Plus, in grade school the girls tended to group up in cliques, and I was left out a lot.

You could try some counseling to deal with the issue and maybe even pinpoint a certain time in your life that affected you. Good luck.
well, you should try to be friendly, but if they're not back, forget about them. always try to make "friends." but most of the time, women are just competing and get jealous of each other and stuff. most of my friends are boys, so i understand how you feel. i only have two to three GOOD girlfriends. all the boys are nice. and i think that your sisters just feel like getting some attention, since they probably dont get much. so if i were you, i'd forget about them, go on with life, be sucessful, and the attention will naturally go to you. trust me :)
Emotional gender is not always the same as biological gender. There are at least five identifiable combinations

Physically male, emotionally male
Physically male, emotionally female
Physically male/female, emotionally neutral
Physically female, emotionally female
Physically female, emotionally male

Of course it's a specturm, there are infinite positions along the way, and one person can change from moment to moment.

My guess is that emotionally, you're a guy. You like to do guy things, you're a risk taker, you're not really in touch with your emotions much, guys like you, women don't. It's a stag party, just the guys and Paula. The only thing that makes you feminine is the "a" on the end of your name.

There's nothing wrong with you. If you want to know more, e-mail me.
So you feel displaced when you are with other women! This is something to be corrected with your thinking and feeling. I know it is quite an uncomfortable feeling. You might want to see a counselor on this regard. Now that you are still young, it might be easier to correct it rather than when you are already 40 yrs. old.
Every morning, do some affirmation to yourself by saying "I am going to get well with other ladies/women today".
You're desperate for attention and you get it by being around with "the boys". You don't have to compete to get attention. Try to give attention to others and they will give it back to you.
Nothing wrong wth u girl ! You r absoulutely super normal...Something wrong with the other girls why they prefer girls than not have the feelings like u..I feel u r truly femminine with all the points u have mntioned..Rajiv.S
No worries i'm 15 and casual like to have girls that are friends over guys, really i think it's just cause through about half of my past i haven't had an actual father figure but i don't mind. Girls say they like to be my friend and i'm more of that one guy in the back of the group kinda guy. Really i have put more trust in women because when i tell guys my secrets (crushes, likes, dislikes) everyone else knows by the next day. That... aaaaand i'm not one of those weird guys who wants to work out all the time, more of the guy to watch TV or something =P
I am the same way you are. It's a lot easier to talk to males than it is females for me. I can't tell you the reasons why for yourself but for me its easier to talk to a male because they usually seem more interested in talking back to me compared with a female. Plus a female usually babbles on and on about their own problems without caring to ask about your own. A male doesn't seem to talk about their problems as much and can have conversations about things other than problems. Only thing is though.. you have to watch out with the opposite sex friendships because usually they end up wanting more lol.

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