What can you do if certain people you dont like or dont want to no, put their slant on your life? give their?
opinion on your life, when you dont even like to hear them talk, or cant bear it? plus you dont like their incorrect point of view, dont want it, and you wish theyd shut the hell up.
howd you handle these people?
Answer:
Thats an easy one, I myself am upfornt with them. There are very few people that give me good advice. Those who dont, know it because I tell them. You dont have to do it in a mean way, but depending on how they respond you may have to put it in a way that is straight upp with no beating around the bush. You seem like a younger guy, so remember you dont have to be disrespectful, but you dont have to be disrespected either. I grew up with people telling me how they wanted my life to be, and had to learn to be real and honest to get them to understand that I have to live my life, they cant live it for me. If that doesnt work and they cant respect that..distance yourself from them, you really will have no other choice.
you keep away from them
Is it your mother in_law?
Just ignore them and dont listen infact dont have anything to do with the misery guts, people like that tend to not be happy with life and try to bring everyone else down to their pittiful pit
walk away
I just tell them that I didn't ask for their advice. However, if you bellyache or whine about your problems in front of them you set yourself up to be lectured on how to live. Just a thought. Think before you speak your mind in front of them. These people love a debate.
I didn't understand a word of that, sorry.
Walk away.
They are in your life as a gift. They are there to teach you about yourself.
Ask yourself why their view is "wrong". Is it because it is different from your view?
There will ALWAYS be people you don't get along with and a person truly in control of their own life would not be phased by the opinions of others - right or wrong.
It all depends if this is an opininated, arrogant busy body you need to ignore their rantings and get on with it.
If it is someone who is genuinely concerned for your welfare and is telling you like it is and you dont wanna hear it. Then you need to open your mind to the possibility that they may know what they are talking about.
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howd you handle these people?
Answer:
Thats an easy one, I myself am upfornt with them. There are very few people that give me good advice. Those who dont, know it because I tell them. You dont have to do it in a mean way, but depending on how they respond you may have to put it in a way that is straight upp with no beating around the bush. You seem like a younger guy, so remember you dont have to be disrespectful, but you dont have to be disrespected either. I grew up with people telling me how they wanted my life to be, and had to learn to be real and honest to get them to understand that I have to live my life, they cant live it for me. If that doesnt work and they cant respect that..distance yourself from them, you really will have no other choice.
you keep away from them
Is it your mother in_law?
Just ignore them and dont listen infact dont have anything to do with the misery guts, people like that tend to not be happy with life and try to bring everyone else down to their pittiful pit
walk away
I just tell them that I didn't ask for their advice. However, if you bellyache or whine about your problems in front of them you set yourself up to be lectured on how to live. Just a thought. Think before you speak your mind in front of them. These people love a debate.
I didn't understand a word of that, sorry.
Walk away.
They are in your life as a gift. They are there to teach you about yourself.
Ask yourself why their view is "wrong". Is it because it is different from your view?
There will ALWAYS be people you don't get along with and a person truly in control of their own life would not be phased by the opinions of others - right or wrong.
It all depends if this is an opininated, arrogant busy body you need to ignore their rantings and get on with it.
If it is someone who is genuinely concerned for your welfare and is telling you like it is and you dont wanna hear it. Then you need to open your mind to the possibility that they may know what they are talking about.
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