What the?
I dated a guy for 7 months, we "broke up" because we live 500 miles away and he "just wasn't sure what he wanted anymore" Then a man that admits he is TERRIBLE at communication, emails me several times a day, stays invisable on messenger, but writes me AS SOON AS I log on.ALL DAY. He even started calling me(even though he HATES the phone.) I have since moved an hour away from him, and his job has him away from home weeks at a time. Now he's like " i told you I didn't know what I wanted a long time ago. "Why in the world would he keep writing me so much if he wasn't interested?
Answer:
he was interested -
very much so but there is a problem with his Spirit / soul and how he can linkup with you in a deeper relationship.
Also he has personal problems that he hoped you could help . He is hiding from you actually and hoping the 'mystique ' will draw you to him
Jon
It's a guy thing, we don't have any idea what we want we just know what we want at the moment, we live in the moment for the moment, to guess into the future would go against our nature. Sorry.
he is trying to play games with your mind....just like you women have been doing to men for thousands of years. so you dont like it when the shoe is on the other foot huh?
it's very simple... He wants the benefit of your company (I'm not saying that you are intimate with him, he does want your emotional input) without having to make any real commitment to you.
I had a boyfriend once who whenever I was getting over him, would come around and pretty much do the same thing your guy is doing.
After three years of this, I realized that I deserved more. I deserved someone who could really share their life with me.
A year later, a met a man, who indeed thought I was just the coolest thing walking.we've been together 10 years, and we both still love each other very much!
Kick 'em to the curb my friend!
Sounds like he's married or has a girl friend and doesn't want you to know.
me thinks he likes ya, Kitty. ;-)
He was playing out a fantasy and never expected that you would ever get together.
he is obviously insecure and he doesn't know how to handle it...go on with your life..and do not count on him..
OK... he was right... he doesn't know what he wants. That's the cause of all this bouncing... AND... if you're not available then he wants you more... and if you're available he doesn't want to be tied down by you.
When you login next time, set yourself to invisible... or invisible to him depending on which of these you can do. Use caller ID on your phone and don't answer if he calls on the phone.
He wants you to be there waiting for him in case he decides he wants you. That's grossly unfair to you.
Accept that he's not ready for the commitment required for any kind of stable relationship and let him go. That's the only good way to care for him. to let him NOT be a part of your life.
You can't change him.
He won't get better so long as you're in his life.
His problems are his and you can't cure or fix him or even help himi.
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Answer:
he was interested -
very much so but there is a problem with his Spirit / soul and how he can linkup with you in a deeper relationship.
Also he has personal problems that he hoped you could help . He is hiding from you actually and hoping the 'mystique ' will draw you to him
Jon
It's a guy thing, we don't have any idea what we want we just know what we want at the moment, we live in the moment for the moment, to guess into the future would go against our nature. Sorry.
he is trying to play games with your mind....just like you women have been doing to men for thousands of years. so you dont like it when the shoe is on the other foot huh?
it's very simple... He wants the benefit of your company (I'm not saying that you are intimate with him, he does want your emotional input) without having to make any real commitment to you.
I had a boyfriend once who whenever I was getting over him, would come around and pretty much do the same thing your guy is doing.
After three years of this, I realized that I deserved more. I deserved someone who could really share their life with me.
A year later, a met a man, who indeed thought I was just the coolest thing walking.we've been together 10 years, and we both still love each other very much!
Kick 'em to the curb my friend!
Sounds like he's married or has a girl friend and doesn't want you to know.
me thinks he likes ya, Kitty. ;-)
He was playing out a fantasy and never expected that you would ever get together.
he is obviously insecure and he doesn't know how to handle it...go on with your life..and do not count on him..
OK... he was right... he doesn't know what he wants. That's the cause of all this bouncing... AND... if you're not available then he wants you more... and if you're available he doesn't want to be tied down by you.
When you login next time, set yourself to invisible... or invisible to him depending on which of these you can do. Use caller ID on your phone and don't answer if he calls on the phone.
He wants you to be there waiting for him in case he decides he wants you. That's grossly unfair to you.
Accept that he's not ready for the commitment required for any kind of stable relationship and let him go. That's the only good way to care for him. to let him NOT be a part of your life.
You can't change him.
He won't get better so long as you're in his life.
His problems are his and you can't cure or fix him or even help himi.
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