Suicidal thoughts?
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Ok sometimes it seems as you say God is not listening but maybe what Im gonna say sound silly but its true I dont care..just as you talk to ur friends talk to him while thinking and you will feel better because sometimes when Im depressed thats what I do tell him everything everything you feel what you think ask him for help and he will you will most definitely feel better I promise and you know what dont harm yourself ! Have you thought of what people who love you feel? Your mom , dad , etc,etc? Even thouhg it may seem people dont care about you , there is! Besides killing yourself is not the solution to problems we all have them but imagine if everyone with problems kill themselves I would of been dead Ive been waiting to know if i got hired for a job i really want and the manager wont call me and Ive even cried about it . Ive been looking for a job for like a month now ..anyways dont do anything you will regret ok? Life is too valuable to throw it away in a second there is ALWAYS something positive in life even if u dont see it now ok?? Hope my advice helps you even a little ok? And remember people might not listen to you or understand you but theres always someone above who truly loves and cares for you. if u wanna talk email me ok I'll gladly answer back!
God doesn't hate you. You are not alone. It's common to feel depressed after an abortion. you really really really NEED to go talk to someone. no one will judge you and most certainly no one will think you are a horrible person. Please, talk to someone.
Yes, I've heard of this, and you're not alone. Try going to a church group, you can lean on them. You can also do fun things, which will take your mind off the pain. You know what you did was wrong, and you've asked God for forgivness, he will forgive you, but now you can't look to the past anymore. Surround yourself with friends and try getting out more. If you comitted suicide it would even be worse than what's happened in the past. There are people in your life who love and care for you, and you will make them suffer if you leave this earth. Pray, join a group, get out for fresh air. Time will heal, and maybe if you are financially balanced now and are stable, adoption may help you fix a bit of that hole thats left in your heart. If a child is too much, try getting a kitten.
If you can't talk to your parents about it then I would waste no time in talking to your doctor about it. He will be able to put you in touch with a counsoler to talk to and try and get the thoughts out of your head. At the end of the day you have nothing to be ashamed of. Yes you might have made a small mistake by not having protected sex but you knew you were not ready and could not cope with a child on your own. If you had kept the baby just think of the life you would have both lead. You would be worse than you are now knowing the child was not wanted and that is not what a child needs to grow up with.
God is listening to you. He is forgiving you because you asked Him to. He is just preparing better times for you and in the moment that you least expect it, there He is with a blessing for you. I know I have been there. I have tried suicide 6 times, but then I thought, why should I take my life away. If I kill myself I won't go to heaven and no one will have any interest in me even in my funeral.
Every morning, and evening pray to the Lord. It does not have to be any special formal prayer, just you and Him in a special conversation, He will listen, I know because He has answered me many times. Just have patience and wait in Him. But I will pray for you and you won't be alone.
Just get involved in activities, be with friends and share your feelings like you are doing now. Put on some classical or piano music. When I accept Jesus as my Savior, I felt free of depression and suicidal thoughts. Read the Bible, just a few verses. Also there are books by Joyce Mayers Ministry who she has been through so much that she over came all this because of her accepting Jesus.
Remember, a lot of people like you and because you are young you have a whole life ahead of you. Keep on forward and I'll be praying for you too.
God will forgive you.
Please go to a local Independent Baptist church. There should be a Pastor there who will help you.
Society has said its OK to kill a baby, but the girls that do it are finding out what you have already found out. Some things that will help you are getting down on your knees and praying to God for his forgiveness. Then helping other girls that are going through what you went through before the abortion. Many women have said "Helping other women has helped them". There are associations out there that help girls who are pregnant and thinking about abortions.
It will not be easy. It will be a great help to others. You will always have the guilt, but helping to save their babies will help you to get through this.
Committing suicide will only hurt the people that love you. Suicide is a selfish thing to do. You may be gone, but the people that love you will suffer for the rest of their lives.
Honey i want you to stop and take a good hard look at your friends , your family, your boyfriend, somebody new to you as a friend, Because if you found an aquantance or someone new in your life, that person needs you as more then an aquantence, and that person, is also your angel, that angel that aquantence is also your soul that you lost for a long time, God has a plan for you right now, he sent that angel to you, Dont think about your past look toward the future, and listen to that aquatence that is an angel, She or he will help you, And help other kids understand that sex is not a game, and go forward to be a abortion councelor, iam sure your family needs you too, Take a day or two, and go on the internet , and you will see a whole new world open up to you, We are here for you, 24 hours,
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