Is there anyone out there whom you'd allow to see the "REAL" you?
Anyone?
This is quiet terrifying for me, even though it is a defense mechanism that I had created years and years ago sometimes I can't help but wish that I could communicate better or really manage to come across as more sociable and less awkward person...?
I'd like to know if there are others going through a similar phase and/or share the same dilemma in life?
Answer:
no.and it's not so much "allowing" someone to see the real me, it's more an inability to be totally and honestly me when in the presence of others... I will always be the only one who knows the real me.
I am very outgoing, involved in my community, a leader who speaks my mind and well-liked by family, friends and acquaintances. I do a lot of volunteer work, have an interesting career and a great sense of humor..but I will always be the only one who knows the real me.
the answer is no..we try to show ourselves as we want others to see us.
Yes but only my sister shes my best friend I can totaly be myself with her
I really relate. I was the queen of masks and facades, until I met Sam. After 20 years, there's not much he hasn't seen of me or heard. I can be comfortable singing to the top of my lungs, off key as all get out, passing gas at the same time and still feel right at home. I used to leave the bathroom door locked for about 15 years. He really had a problem with that. He never said why, but I felt it had to do with trust and intimacy, so now I usually leave it open. Twice in our relationship I have had a stomach virus which caused both ends to erupt at the same time, he came in and cleaned me and it up......I have nothing to hide and nothing to fear from him. I am very blessed to know a person so kind. So, my point, find a very kind person and cherish them and allow the intimacy to grow. It doesn't just happen, it grows and stays put. It will feel great. Remember, before Sam, I could never be myself with anyone, it was much too uncomfortable. Be patient darlin' you'll meet just the perfect one.
I am always the real me. I have no reservations about who I am.
I've been able to be myself with my husband.of course, he's my third husband. I've been through some emotional and physical abuse and psychotherapy to help deal with it. But with my husband.we were friends before we became lovers or started dating. There is very little that I haven't told him and he has seen me pretty stripped down and "naked" emotionally. We can talk about anything, we are very up front about things with each other and it's nice to have FINALLY found someone I can be myself in front of.
Like I told him...he's someone I feel that I can sit around nude in front of and I don't have to feel self-concious of my body, thinking it's not perfect (like in magazines), or I may have lumps and bumps or bulges, or maybe I look a little fat or whatever....he accepts me as I am and loves me for WHO I am, the same as I do for him. It's truly wonderful.
no i am not if I want to see the real me
my mom
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This is quiet terrifying for me, even though it is a defense mechanism that I had created years and years ago sometimes I can't help but wish that I could communicate better or really manage to come across as more sociable and less awkward person...?
I'd like to know if there are others going through a similar phase and/or share the same dilemma in life?
Answer:
no.and it's not so much "allowing" someone to see the real me, it's more an inability to be totally and honestly me when in the presence of others... I will always be the only one who knows the real me.
I am very outgoing, involved in my community, a leader who speaks my mind and well-liked by family, friends and acquaintances. I do a lot of volunteer work, have an interesting career and a great sense of humor..but I will always be the only one who knows the real me.
the answer is no..we try to show ourselves as we want others to see us.
Yes but only my sister shes my best friend I can totaly be myself with her
I really relate. I was the queen of masks and facades, until I met Sam. After 20 years, there's not much he hasn't seen of me or heard. I can be comfortable singing to the top of my lungs, off key as all get out, passing gas at the same time and still feel right at home. I used to leave the bathroom door locked for about 15 years. He really had a problem with that. He never said why, but I felt it had to do with trust and intimacy, so now I usually leave it open. Twice in our relationship I have had a stomach virus which caused both ends to erupt at the same time, he came in and cleaned me and it up......I have nothing to hide and nothing to fear from him. I am very blessed to know a person so kind. So, my point, find a very kind person and cherish them and allow the intimacy to grow. It doesn't just happen, it grows and stays put. It will feel great. Remember, before Sam, I could never be myself with anyone, it was much too uncomfortable. Be patient darlin' you'll meet just the perfect one.
I am always the real me. I have no reservations about who I am.
I've been able to be myself with my husband.of course, he's my third husband. I've been through some emotional and physical abuse and psychotherapy to help deal with it. But with my husband.we were friends before we became lovers or started dating. There is very little that I haven't told him and he has seen me pretty stripped down and "naked" emotionally. We can talk about anything, we are very up front about things with each other and it's nice to have FINALLY found someone I can be myself in front of.
Like I told him...he's someone I feel that I can sit around nude in front of and I don't have to feel self-concious of my body, thinking it's not perfect (like in magazines), or I may have lumps and bumps or bulges, or maybe I look a little fat or whatever....he accepts me as I am and loves me for WHO I am, the same as I do for him. It's truly wonderful.
no i am not if I want to see the real me
my mom
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