If you've been abused by others, could you please let us know what's helped you deal with your feelings on it?
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I'm not sure how you were abused, but me I was sexually abused as a child. It took me a long time to get over it. Actually I wouln't say now I am totally over it. It still affects my life, especially my personal relationships. But I have learned to put it past me and move on. I would suggest getting professional help (although that is not what I did). Me, personally it took God to help me. You have to forgive that person. That may be very hard. I know it was for me. You have to forgive yourself also. Even though in reality it may not have been your fault, somehow we tell ourselves it was. God can replace all of the hurt feelings! He cannot change what happened to you, but he can take away the pain! And this makes me feel better too, He will make them pay for the things they do to His people. And He will make up for your wrongdoings. He can give back 10 times what has been taken from you! I hope my words will help you deal with your situation. Good luck and God Bless You!
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