How do you get over rejection by girls, especially if its happened all your life, and youve never had a?
girlfriend? plus ive got bpd disorder and low self esteem, so its far from easy to try access a relashionship, i have low self esteem, get needy, clingy, crave intamacy early on, get stuck for things to say, so it always scares girls away, im 30 now, so i feel times gonna run out, plus ive physically aged alot to in the face. and because im lonely i get desperate to.
im waiting for therapy for my disorder.
can anyone relate to this frustrating, depressing situation?
Answer:
First of all Happy Birthday! Gemini huh? I grew up with Geminis they are great, caring, and sensitive by nature. Do you want us to sing? I love a good embarrassing singing of Happy Birthday especially in public!
True someone who acts needy/clingy is not going to have the best of luck in a relationship. Everyone is insecure to a point and most people will be more attracted to a confident person. I started seeing this guy once years ago, that I started to have second thoughts about until, he said that he wanted me to be with whoever made me the happiest even if it wasn't him. I never heard anything like that before, it showed he cared about my happiness, he was confident, didn't need me and that made me want to be with him more. Most people also want what they can't have,really don't think I fully understood why my mind changed so fast,it might of been like instinct.Try being friends or playing a little hard to get, you need to let the girl decide to be with you you will get more attention this way and have more opportunities to be with women.
Anyways girls like a strong man to protect her and lead her so when you fall out of your place as a dominate roll, it will feel wrong to a girl and she will lose interest. There is also a saying "If you love something let it go, if it come back to you then it was meant to be."
sex therapists, old ladies and hookers
Meet Andy the 40 year old virgin. You two can hang-out together and play megaman action figures together.
well i feel you! just try and become friends with her before you tell her you like her! and once you start going out make her feel loved and just be yourself around her you dont need to think of things to say just say what you would normally say and if she doesnt like you for who you are she is the one missing out!!
This is a natural law I've personally stumbled upon:
The more you love and respect yourself, the more love and respect you put out in the world. The more love and respect you put out in the world (specifically to your situation, around the opposite sex), the more love and respect is returned to you.
This cannot be faked or else you will continue scaring away quality women or attract only those who are fake themselves.
So, work on you, man.
Good luck, dude.
Call girls wouldn't be a bad idea if you got some change to spare. Not that I'm implying you sleep with them or anything, but it would help you get used to being around a good looking woman. Then you can ask her these types of questions. And if she sleeps with ya then that's even better.
Yes make a list of all your good qualities build on them. try to find a group or club with people who share your interests Volunteer...
i was your way once then i met my wife to be and so i don't have to worry any more.. but son i will tell you this you might have a problem like bpd what ever but don't use that to say why thing are happen.. ever one has a disorder of one kind or other.. is is the person that use that disorder to better one self that move on and up and get on with living and life..
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im waiting for therapy for my disorder.
can anyone relate to this frustrating, depressing situation?
Answer:
First of all Happy Birthday! Gemini huh? I grew up with Geminis they are great, caring, and sensitive by nature. Do you want us to sing? I love a good embarrassing singing of Happy Birthday especially in public!
True someone who acts needy/clingy is not going to have the best of luck in a relationship. Everyone is insecure to a point and most people will be more attracted to a confident person. I started seeing this guy once years ago, that I started to have second thoughts about until, he said that he wanted me to be with whoever made me the happiest even if it wasn't him. I never heard anything like that before, it showed he cared about my happiness, he was confident, didn't need me and that made me want to be with him more. Most people also want what they can't have,really don't think I fully understood why my mind changed so fast,it might of been like instinct.Try being friends or playing a little hard to get, you need to let the girl decide to be with you you will get more attention this way and have more opportunities to be with women.
Anyways girls like a strong man to protect her and lead her so when you fall out of your place as a dominate roll, it will feel wrong to a girl and she will lose interest. There is also a saying "If you love something let it go, if it come back to you then it was meant to be."
sex therapists, old ladies and hookers
Meet Andy the 40 year old virgin. You two can hang-out together and play megaman action figures together.
well i feel you! just try and become friends with her before you tell her you like her! and once you start going out make her feel loved and just be yourself around her you dont need to think of things to say just say what you would normally say and if she doesnt like you for who you are she is the one missing out!!
This is a natural law I've personally stumbled upon:
The more you love and respect yourself, the more love and respect you put out in the world. The more love and respect you put out in the world (specifically to your situation, around the opposite sex), the more love and respect is returned to you.
This cannot be faked or else you will continue scaring away quality women or attract only those who are fake themselves.
So, work on you, man.
Good luck, dude.
Call girls wouldn't be a bad idea if you got some change to spare. Not that I'm implying you sleep with them or anything, but it would help you get used to being around a good looking woman. Then you can ask her these types of questions. And if she sleeps with ya then that's even better.
Yes make a list of all your good qualities build on them. try to find a group or club with people who share your interests Volunteer...
i was your way once then i met my wife to be and so i don't have to worry any more.. but son i will tell you this you might have a problem like bpd what ever but don't use that to say why thing are happen.. ever one has a disorder of one kind or other.. is is the person that use that disorder to better one self that move on and up and get on with living and life..
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