How do you stop worrying what people think of you?
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Think of it like this - If you keep worrying about what people say you're not really going to have a life and you're goning to stop yourself from having amazing moments and fun and most of the time if people talk about you they're jealous and want what you have.
by realising that no one is perfect and that we all have flaws
thats why we are all amazing
even you xx
stay busy by making yourself a better person everyday.
People are going to talk about you anyway, because there are mean and cruel people in this world
People that matter...don't mind.
People that mind...don't matter!
You need to realize that everyone really is created equal and we all have gifts as well as faults. Learn to love yourself the way you are and others will naturally like you more because of it and if they don't, you won't care so much.
It is really simple. Just stop caring. Stop caring what anyone thinks and live your life, your way, for you! At first you may have to just pretend you don't care. Fake it to others and to yourself and eventually you realize you really don't care.
a start is to try thinking for yourself
like what you like, pay attention to that
forget what other people say you should like
you simply stop worrying about it full stop.
Learn to love yourself! Confidence helps a lot. You have probably heard the phrase "fake it 'til you make it" and it is so true. I used to worry about what others thought of me and I found I was a lot happier when I was true to myself and didn't try to be what I thought others wanted me to be.
I would say that you keep focus, what are your dreams? are you working toward your goals? Just stop thinking about other people and start to think about you and how to become a better human being. People will always talk some good things others well not so good, take the good and the bad and make the best out of both that way you will grow and mature and become a better person. Good Luck.
You come to the realization that you can not please everyone and realize that what 99.99% of people thik is nothing at all. So, I just be myself and if they have issues with it or say something about it, remember that sarcasom is your friend, use it.
When you worry about what people think of you, this is social consciousness. You feel inadequate in some way, and you believe that others can see this, or can figure it out within a very short period of meeting you.
This is actually untrue. Most people are not looking for your flaws, but rather how you are different from them (ie: are you taller/shorter, what colour is your hair/skin/eyes, is your voice higher/lower, do you speak the way they do or with an accent?). These are the kinds of things that people notice & pay attention to. So rather than becoming pre-occupied with your perceived personal flaws, instead try thinking on a more simple level. Today you will try to be your best by speaking clearly, by taking time to look & feel good, and noticing the differences in others (after all, if they can think about you, you can certainly do the same about them!).
When you are more happy with yourself, this will reflect outwards, and people will notice this (those who matter anyway). Besides, there are so many people on this planet (over 1 trillion so far & growing) now that if you look at the small percentage that you interact with (and these are the ones you are worried about, yes?) that's about .00025% of the world's population. I'm sure most of the rest of us are more worried about what people like you are thinking about us!! hehehehehe)
I think that its something a lot of people go through and that you never completely get rid of. We're taught from such a young age to conform to society and its unwritten rules - when we go to school as children you learn that you have to adapt to the norm or you'll be singled out, insulted, embarrassed etc. To avoid all of the above we try to make sure that we do things as normally and acceptably as possible. Anything we do or have that we arent sure is mainstream we become conscious of and fearful of. Only when you get to a point where you feel you have earned your right to do things your way or when you have confidence in knowing 'the rules' will you begin to feel at ease.
What has worked for me is to basically conentrate on myself. I worry about getting MYSELF through college and getting job and saving for MYSELF and MY future. I just act like myself and forget what other people think of me. It's hard at first. After awhile you become numb to what other people are thinking about you.
Someone once told me what others think of me is none of my business. That helped me...
!!Hello Bethany
The Golden rule
"It matter very little what other People think of You"
What really matters
"Is how you feel about Yourself"
Because you are the No 1 person in your life , if you are OK the rest will fall nicely into place.
Have a lovely lovely week No 1 Person
i'm too outgoing to worry about what people think about me.
Wonderful question!! This is one of the greatest life lessons you can learn and hopefully it is learned at a young enough age to still enjoy your life as your own instead of living it for other ppl. I think the way to stop is just to stop. I love all the other answers and there is soooo much wisdom in each and every one of them! You just have to decide that you owe it to yourself to be true to yourself, you are responsible for your life and happiness as they are for theirs!! Good Luck!
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