Personality is so over-rated...?
looks will fade, and then you can stop being a *****.
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You sure are right.
seriously
hmm u got me there but i look for what is on the inside of a person before the outside beauty inside = beauty outside this is what i think
and then you can stop being a .... a shallow insensitive social puppet ? Is that close ?
I have had many relationships in my life. Some, in all honesty, were "looks" based... they didn't work out, at least not anywhere near the ones where we had similar values and our personalities clicked.
So... personality, for me, is mandatory in any long-term relationship worth having. Anything less is just a delirious masochism.
I will give note to the fact that I am still a sexual creature and there must be some enduring physical attraction in order for me to not mmmm...wander. into a sexually satisfing situation. And that I believe, runs concurrently with my needs to be of the same "caliber" of person I would be involved with... so as not to hurt (or betray the trust of) the person who cares for me, she who foregoes the daily advances against our relationship, by the walking hormones... I must be like she, and she, like me... more humane than human.
I am not a monk.
I am clearly not a walking hormone either.
As time goes on, while I still have vision... I guess I am equally attracted to a kind heart, a soothing voice, a healthy body, and a capable and aware person-ality.
Whether she is "hot" or just plain ol' "do-able"... is necessary, but there is an ocean of difference between "necessary" and "important"... and that classification is just an introduction into the further qualifications I mentioned earlier...
Namaste...
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