How to tackle the people who try to bully us?
Answer:
kick him or her in the nuts
Ignore them and show you are not scared of them. At one point of time, they will get tired with it.
Run really fast and SACK EM! dont back down from anyone ever! you back down to a bully you will always be bullied! Dont give them the satisfaction. even if you lose the fight you can make one hell of a dent in thier face and pride! Fight!
Try dribbling.
Get a good grip on the situation.
You can pass this situation over to the principal or you can go for the tomahawk dunk.
your choice..your situation.you make the call.
In my experience, the only way to deal with a bully, be they physical or psychological bullies, is head on. Ignoring a bully isn't going to change their behaviour. If a bully thinks someone is not afraid to fight them or stand up to them, they will think twice before acting.
Bullies, by & large are people who try to manipulate others with fear. The more they can see fear in you, the bigger the thrill they get. They try to provoke the fear, then use that fear they see to make you do what they want you to.
If you believe that you can stand up to them, the first thing is to master your fear. This means not showing it, not giving in to it, and not letting it manipulate you (emotionally or physically). The next thing that will happen is they will try to hurt you (to cause you to fear). I know this because that's what they tried to do to me.
If you want to fight them, do so. But make sure you plan to win. If it's a boy, kick him in the thigh (front side) to slow him down, then the kneecap, then in the groin. This usually gets their attention and makes them think twice about taking you on. If it's a girl, don't bother pulling hair or scratching with fingernails. Simply kick them in the thigh again, then punch for the breasts, when she tries to get in close, rip her top off (if you can pull the bra off too, go for it). Usually when a girl gets topless in public, she stops fighting.
If you don't want to fight, talk to a teacher, a guidance counsellor, or the vice principal at your school. Violence is not tolerated and if they are coming at you off school property, find some friends to walk with. How do bullies handle you with 4 friends with you?? If they start following you around, talk to your parents, or another adult (maybe at your favourite hangout? convenience store?... etc.). Even talk to the police or call the kids help phone. There are lots of ways to deal with bullies, just find one that works for you!
You gotta lead in with your shoulder, with your head on the side of them in which they are moving. Wrap your are around them and keep pumping your legs. They should hit the ground in no time. Old football technique.
in my bully experiences, i fought back...i was kinda quiet at school so i suppose that sort of made me a target... when i was in 2nd grade (or 1st grade, can't remember which), a certain someone who, btw, was shorter than me became my first bully encounter. she liked to pinch me. this went on for some time until i got so mad i pinched her back. end of problem.
in 5th grade a new bully came into my life but she wasn't really a problem coz i had these two boys who always defended me. they even spoofed a cheer song for my bully.
i later found out that my bully was an adopted and only child.
bullies may be tough on the outside, but they're weak on the inside. or they have insecurities of their own. but really, that's no excuse for them to become bullies, or for you to let them bully you.
Ignore until you lose your temper and then hit them after you lose your temper.
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