Is it weird?im so frustrated.?
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I know exactly what you're saying. I do the same thing. It's getting to the point where i hate too go anywhere, and i take meds.
sounds like you have social anxiety...should probablly see a doctor
I understand what you are saying, but I really don't have that problem, I don't wana say you have low self esteem but. it sure sounds like you should get over whatever issues of whats causing you not to want to go to the mall or public places. How do you feel about going to school, around people who aren't your friends...?
Yes, it is normal, but what is not normal, is that you think too much about what others are thinking, and not enough about what makes you happy!!
You shouldn't care about what others think, its your life, and have only one (aslo only one body). Women are often too much critical of themself, men are not even 1% as much critical as women are of themself...
Me and my sister are very close, and sometimes I point a girl that I like, and she always find a thing like: "her shoulders are too broad" or thing like this, and a answer her, WHO CARES!
Please stop thinking for others, accept your body as he is, as the most beautiful women on earth, are the ones that are happy with themselves, the ones that are too complexed, are not funny at all...
It's probably just a phase, I know how you feel, sometimes I don't want to go anywhere, just want to stay in the house, cause I feel uncomfortable with people seeing me. It's my low-self esteem, I never was able to look at anyone eye to eye, never wanted to go any where with a lot of people, just wanted to stay away from attention. Now, I'm over that, I love myself for who I am, whether I didn't get that fabulous bod or looks I always wanted, who cares, it's me. At least I'm real, you should accept yourself, when your confident about yourself, people will see that confident in you as well, remember beauty comes from within. You may not like who you are now, but I think it'll change in time.
What is "masculine" about your looks? Are you beer bellied, flabby fat , do you walk with a straight back rather than swaying hips, do you have an Adam's apple? No one--NO ONE-- is built perfect, not even that rich bratt in LA county jail, not even me. and, women in transition are always awkward about their appearances. Just don' t let yourself go to the dogs over a temporary bout of low self image esteem.. This too will pass if you just stay in good shape, run, work out, sweat a few times every day.. do feminine things too -- it helps to look the part.
Dear Melissa C. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder..Even though you may feel that you are unattractive, someone else may think otherwise. With regards to how you look, the most important thing to make sure at all times is that you are neatly dressed and presentable. That's all that matters.. . On many occassions, an individual's outward appearance may be very attractive but they may have very undesirable and unpleasant characteristics such as being rude, arrogant, inconsiderate ..etc. These unpleasant ways make them unattractive. On the other hand someone may not be all that attractive, but their ways, such as being kind , compassionate, caring, being polite etc make them attractive. At the end of the day, it's the beauty of your character that counts not the beauty of your body. Outward beauty is only skin deep - nothing more. Imagine if you continue depriving yourself from socialising, going out and enjoying life, how regrettable you will be in 15 -20 years time. Just because you felt that you were unattractive, you refused to socialise. As long as you are not breaking any law or doing anything immoral, you should do as you please. You should'nt feel ashamed of the way you look. You haven't done anything to feel ashamed of that you should remain behind closed doors. Seize the moment and live life to the fullest. .Remember, it's the beauty of your character that counts, not your outward beauty. Regards, Ghøst
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