Why is it that I have more material things than most normal teenagers? But they seem happier?
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You are finding out that money, or material goods, does not buy happiness. Money is just a tool... but often represents inner security for many people...
If you want to go to camp for memories, relationships and experiences with people... tell your parents that. But don't wait till the last minute. Tell them way ahead, find a camp that you want to attend, and tell them that you'll save your allowance or do odd jobs in order to pay for your share. In other words: 1) communicate what you want 2) set a concrete goal (e.g. THIS camp for HOW MUCH money) and 3) work out a plan to pay for it (and then, of course, DO IT).
Your soul is talking to you. You don't care if you get everything you want for Christmas. All you really want is some time with your parents. You are thinking, "What is the use of these things if I don't even enjoy them?
well, happiness is a state of mind, and at one time or another we have different definitions of happiness. one can be happy with money, material things, friends, family security, health, success in career, rosy lovelife, etc... for most kids your age, it's the material things that make them happy, nice clothes, latest gadgets, chilling-out with friends. you should be thankful for the things that you have as most youngsters your age cannot afford them at all, even barely with the basic needs. i can understand though your sadness for not being able to go out as much as you can in camps and other youth gatherings. maybe your parent is just protecting you for any untoward event. why don't you ask them again nicely, and tell them that you need it as much as being able to belong to a social group, and that you would want to enjoy your youth building on good memories through productive activities. just be sure that the activities you wisely choose will be positive and benificial to you and your personal growth. having assured your parents of this, i think they will understand.
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