Regrets, what is the point?
I could hardly believe all the answers saying 'yes, I had a one night stand, and I have so many regrets about it'
what is the point of having regrets?
If you had a bad experience (in anything) learn and move on.
Dad always says, " you planted the crop, so deal with the harvest"
To me regret is sitting there crying about something you should have done, or not done... is that of any use?
learn, deal, move on..... or is there anything I'm missing??
Answer:
Regretting/Worrying is like sitting in a rocking chair
It gives you something to do, but it gets you no where.
Just learn from it .. thats all you can do!
So did you have a 1 night stand then?
Thank your lucky stars, you look like shite.
" you planted the crop, so deal with the harvest"
Nawh theres no point to regrets. But we can cry about them because it helps us feel better. We know that we've made a mistake and that we'll have to live with the consequences but sometimes ya just gotta cry.
sounds good to me.
regrets...i've had a few...but then again too few to mention...
and to be honest i don't regret anymore...i just hang with people who accept me for who or what i am...if they don't...i move on...simple
besides i had a couple of really good one night stands!
I think you sumed it all up!
you learn.
it is more harder to sit there fretting about something that happen there is a lot of things I sure wished I could of stop doing in my relationship with the first person who I married it nothing to go back 2 more likely I had felt bad my lost of losing my three kids
to divorce and have the x wifes mom caring 4my dau as her guardian and my two other boys who are w/there grand Aunt
if you keep wishing what you could of done then you would of never learn what you did was wrong.. I kept on two yrs on lost my 2nd wife heard so much of my history she told me she was tired of talking about the ghost who lives with us. plz be happy get on with your life plz be happy you only live life once
I think one night stands are something you can learn about to change what you did wrong or such.
Regrets....Ive had a few....but then again too few to mention....i did what i had to do..blahblah...
The point of regrets is that if you had done something a different way you might have been better off.
Regrets are healthy and needed and we learn from them. Just because you regret something doesnt mean you cant move on. Neither does it mean youre sat there crying over spilt milk....thats feeling sorry for yourself (a different thing altogether!)
Regret simply means that in hindsight you wish you'd done things different.
Dealing with it as you put it does not mean forgetting it happened and moving on (sweeping it under the carpet). The fact you remember it is important for future learning and growing as a person.
If the crop in question is a one night stand, a baby or HIV would be a hell of a harvest to have to deal with so obviously its would be right and proper to feel regret about it.
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