Is this normal ?
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It is normal for many people, but it is not a healthy habit. People will try to make use of such people. Be commanding. It will keep them at bay.
No, it is not healthy. You need to be in a situation where your forced to become the aggressor and take charge.
well it okay sometimes but u should get ur thoughts out in the open.
Yes its okay ,your character is like that .
If you want to change ,you can change ,just do what you always wanted to do ,but dont hurt other people .
Its also important to know your age ,if you are <16 you will change
Not eveyone is loud, brash and outgoing. There's a whole spectrum of personalities that make up society. But if you're NEVER emotional (I think you might be exaggerating! :) ) then maybe something is bugging you deep down and you need to find a release in a hobby or sport or something.
If this is truly you then embrace it. Understand that there are advantages to every state of being as well as disadvantages. If you don't like it, then change it. Be what you dream of. All you have to do is accept whatever you choose to be.
do you get into arguments often? u r just probably sick of arguing if u often do so. its a natural human instinct to avoid unpleasant things (in this case conflict) when they lead to anger, grief, or stress. when this instinct is implemented, humans try to find a way out of the situation just as you do with ur submissive attitude. but dont be afraid to stand up 4 urself!
Well, it may be bad or not. Anyway if you feel bad about how you are right now, talk to your friends. If you are like that because you have been hurt in the past its fine because that happens to everyone just give yourself a time and well try to be more social. But if you are like that because thats just how you are, then you can try to change yourself if being the way you are makes you feel bad. If you feel fine the way you are then it's fine.
nope
definitely NOT healthy. one day you're going to explode, hopefully you don't kill someone. you need to release some emotions whenever possible (this is why men don't live as long as women). try taking a debate course at a college or applying for a higher position at work. this will help you to become more authoritative, engage in arguing and/or not having to be submissive.
This is absolutely not normal and it can react on you. Try to analyse why you are submissive. Is it because you dont have courage or enough knowledge to get back. If that is so try to make yourself strong. If you can confide in anyone please do so. Your friends can help you. But be careful of the person whom you choose as a friend coz he/she may spread abt u. People are bound to take advantage. You dont have to be open always, but you need to put your foot down wherever needed.
Trust me just a little guts and strong will can take you places and you will be just the person you wished to be. Good Luck!
It is absolutely not 'normal'. It is definitely not healthy. I recommend seeing a psychologist to help you address this problem and overcome it. There is a big difference between a natural healthy introverted personality and someone who is withdrawn, shy, and emotionally stunted. Assertion and confrontation are both normal and healthy aspects of living. Without practicing assertion you are not allowing yourself to function properly in your relationship and you are not allowing yourself to grow as an individual.
If that is the temperament you were born with then that is what is normal for you. If you are always submissive by your own choice (as opposed to being fearful of rejection or retaliation from others) and otherwise have a positive self esteem that too could be normal. If you are unhappy about your "normal" self then there are methods you can learn about and use. I never liked to stand up for myself when I was still very young. A book that helped me was "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" by Manuel Smith.
but are you happy being like that? If you are happy about your current situation - then it's normal. Live the life you want to live and not what others want you to live.
But if you are not happy about your current situation, whether it's to do with loneliness or depression, then you need to speak to someone who is an expert in psychology. Seeing a psychologist is plain normal - nothing wrong about it - a psychologist is like someone who listen to your feelings if you are having trouble finding someone to talk about your feelings.
There are draw backs if you don't talk, or "reason" your case out. One is your communicational skills might suffer. Therefore, when you go for a job interview, you might feel uncomfortable when people ask you some situational questions that test your communicational skills and how your reason things.
If you tend to keep all your emotions inside, there will be a time where you can not handle them anymore, and so, you might explode all the anger and frustration inside of you, out which would cause harm to yourself and to others.
Try keeping a journal of your thoughts and read more self improvement books.
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