Do YOU blame yourself if your life does not go right?
luck?God?
Answer:
No point in placing blame its quicker to fix the problem :)
I blame everyone and everything including myself.
i only have myself to blame its my life and no body can really change it or make thing right or wrong...so its down to me
yes
blaming god or luck is taking the easy way out
we all have the power to make our lives what we want of it its up to you whether of not you blow it
First and formost everything bad is George Bush's fault.
I blame you. I was hoping for a more meaningful question :(
of course! who else is to blame?
obviously I am responsible for everything that happens
to me...good or bad.your thinking habits are to be blamed
10 times out of 10
its all fate. how much choice do we really have over our destiny anyway? c'est la vie
of course i blame myself...if i cant do things right than its my fault...life is difficult its a constant struggle...u ahve to learn that sometimes u win but most of the times u have to lose...its just life
I blame myself. Of course there are accidents and things which I have no control over.
all the time ...and I recently went through a spatz because of my parents...really believing that my values that I was bought up on was the reason why I had so much trouble.but actually those are the only thing you have but you do that because you pulvarise yourself over something very stupid...
myself..I hold the reins:)
also because I place my hopes too high and so it's easier to get disappointed.
I blame (for lack of a better word) myself if I should have seen and had the ability to find the way to avert any damage.
Luck is found by placing yourself in the best place for good fortune to enter your life. God (your personal) gave you free choice to use or abuse.
Except in clear cases of you being violated, there is no point in blaming anyone other than yourself...they usually don't care except in how it impacts them.
I live true to myself and the trickle effect is self rewarding.
blame fixes nothing,
so looking at the problems and seeing what can be done to rectify them, might be a smart approach.
first start by having at look at the contributing factors ie,
how did this happen
What can be done to sort this out
What needs to change in a positive direction
What can be learned from this so it does not happen again
look forward and make a map of where you want ot be
No, I don't 'blame' my-self, (far tooooooo judgemental !!)..but I do accept responsibility for the situation I find my-self in, and that does mean acknowledging all the 'mistakes' and poor decisions that I've made....which in turn allows me to understand why I made those particular 'mistakes' at those particular times. We do the best we can with what we have! If we have the humility to conduct an honest and on-going assessment of our own behaviour, then we stand a better chance of 'improving' as people, and all getting on with each other.
Regarding 'un-known variables' like 'god' or 'fortune', If you go down those routes, you're engaging in 'avoidance', and will only make a bad situation worse. Good luck with your 'process'.
Yes I definitely do blame myself, all the time. At one point in my life I was blaming my mother but I was wrong in doing so. O.k I may not have had the best start in life but it's my job to make sure I get up from my low position and make another go of it. But I hasten to add that sometimes things happen to you to knock you off course in life and cause you to be in a position that isn't of your making.x
GREAT QUESTION...No.
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