How do you know when you're starting to lose yourself?



Answer:
When you look in the mirror and no longer recognize who you see there.

As cryptic as it may seem, it's simple to apply. I assume this is in response to a situation, like a breakup or traumatic experience or something very complex you're trying to figure out. Just let go of EVERY variable in your mind and think "What should I do?" Once you have that answer, build your complete response around it.

If you can no longer hear your name calling in the wind, it is time to see if you have forgotten your name.



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The best sighn is when you breath heavily and you tug on your hair
when you ask that question
When you have lost control over your ability to make decisions, and you have lost all certain thought about whom you are as a person.
when nothing seems right anymore
I've been here before! Sorry you are feeling this way. I believe you may notice that you are more forgetful, more agitated and easily aggrivated, anxious and overall extremely stressed out. Try to take a step back from your normal life and find some kind of hobby that you can enjoy and try to relax and do. Everything passes in time. Stand strong, you'll get through this.

Hugs!
Sometimes when we feel lonely what we are really lonely for is ourselves. Feeling disconnected from yourself results in depression and a loss of direction and feeling like there is no purpose in your life. A person needs goals and guidance.

Also when you are just living to please others. Or when you trying hard to find someone to love you, but you dont love yourself. It is impossible to find love in another person if you dont first love yourself. If you have self-confidence the feeling of rejection won't tear you apart because you will know your self-worth and anyaway, more people will be drawn to you.

Also when you are so busy doing doing doing. You are doing so many things at once that you are not really just "being." Every little moment is being filled and every silence needs to be filled as well because the person may be afraid that if he really stops and peers into himself he will find that "there is nothing there." A person needs to be in the present, not caught up in the past or future. They need to take some time for themselves and just sit and be mindful. Meditation helps, focusing on your breath to keep you grounded and in tune to yourself. A person may be so busy that he cant hear his body's many cries and needs.
When something seems not right
Most people don't know unless they have had some experience. In most cases these are recovering people, not necessarily addicts, but neither limited either, their just people recovering from what ever, but mostly they are recovering their spirit, they lost because they never really knew themselves, so to say lost may be the spirit of the self; they knew, but if a person never knew themselves how can they say they were lost! and also if one knows them selves they know not to get lost, because of the consequences! it's complicated I know but this is true. What a person can say I am becoming the person GOD would have me to be.
You're starting to lose yourself if you can't remember where you came from the beginning.You should appreciate your life before you become rich or what-ever & look back at the moment when you're little that you lived a very poor existence .Like Oprah, she is the example of a poor person & now a billionaire & very influential person in the world. She can be a model to everyone who has got up to her status.

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