What can you do if you look like someone you dont wanna look like and its killing you that you do?

and people keep reminding you of the fact that you look like this person, and you cringe because yo cant live with it, because you hate this person, dont like their features and the way they look.then it dawns on you, like it has today, whilst looking at old photos of yourself, to my horror/terror i realise that there are resemblences and similarities to the very person who there telling you look like, who you dont wanna be...and dont like the look of...im not saying i hate the guy, but i just cant bear it that i look like him..what should i do? especially if youve been blocking it out for years, living in denial about it...because its painfull and you dont wanna except you look like this person? im a bpd sufferer with very low self esteem, plus i do have an identity crisis

Answer:
You live with what life gives you. Now if it is a deformity you can get medical help. If the resemblance is not of a mass murderer then there is nothing worry about, is there? If it is your father that happens, if it is your mother. Joke, for life is to short no matter how long it may be.
Im thinking you are being compared to your father. Hey, looks are something else, your personality is what makes you different from that other person people say you look like. Yeah you look like him, but you are not him. Keep that in mind. Dont be so sad i hate it when people are sad...makes me wanna help em...as a matter of fact im kinda sad right now myself.
Go and watch The New Guy

it could give you some ideas

also you have the whole summer to change grow your hair color it black pierce your ear and tongue. where chains or.

cut all your hair to a 1 1/2 and color the tips spike it and wear preppy clothes OK that's just the style changes for looks

trim your eye bows or get them waxed all summer use face masks to tighten your face that wont change the way the nose is shaped or anything like that but will make your face look cleaner and more alive.

OK well good luck and have fun with it try new things during the summer and you will find the right one for you
Well, I look like Borat, and initially I got mad when people said that. But then I made it work for me because I also ACT like Borat, too! A big, bi Borat!

Well hon, I bet you're very handsome. Just remember that you are a unique individual, beautiful in your own right, and no one else looks like you in the world.
you could
1. beat up the other guy so his face no longer looks like yours
2. beat yourSELF up so you no longer look like him
3. Sue him in a court of law for copyright violations or something (a guy here did it to michael jordan!) and make some money off of it
4. Stop looking at yourself in the mirror so you don't have to be concerned about how you look
5. Brush everyone off by saying "that's nice" and changing the subject
6. get a drastic new haircut so it takes the focus off your face
7. move far away so no one knows the person you look like AND you and you never hear it again
8. become friends with the person - and go as identical twins for halloween and get double candy
9. punch anyone who tells you that without warning - they will stop very quickly - and plead some mental case in court and get some money from the government off of it.
10. Become REALLY famous and then wait for him to impersonate you and sue him for infringement and make more money.
hmmmmm...that's all I can think of - doubt it's much help though.
Stop being so depressing
Yeah, people always told me, when I was growing up that I looked like my Dad. Sorry folks, but there is no one on this planet that I hate more than that man!!! Now I look like my mom, sorry, same reaction. Except when I wear my contact lenses and put on make up, then I've been told I'm beautiful. I was once told I looked like Cheryl Ladd.

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