How can i gain confidence in dealing with other people?
i often encounter people who are very much smart and professional.
CAN ANYONE HELP me ON How to deal with them??
thanks!!!!
Answer:
hey whenever dey talk to u jst make ur contact eye to eye
never luk at anywhere jst in the eye
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stand up tall act proud and be confident in yourself
First admit to the fact that they are smarter. which you have good :D ok well just talk to them get to know there normal life and not just there work life maby that will help you , you never know maby they like normal hobbies that you like and your better than them at those :) hope i helped
From my own experience that has worked very consistently for me:
I fake the confidence. I find that quite a few others do it as well - if you act insecure around others they may continue to treat you as such and make up assumptions in their mind about you or begin to question some parts of you.
In your own words, you called those people smart and professional - well act smart and professional - if even just a little bit. The rest usually follows.
Just being yourself is your confidence, if you go through life thinking about what other people think or say about you, you will become a mess. So what if they say things with bigger words than you can conceive at that time, if you come into a real person that you feel is smarter that you then listen closely too their conversation and see if they really understand themselves. I am just like you because I am not a fast thinker to anything but I can learn a person by their conversation. If a person is professional, then in their words in their conversation will be used in correct vocabulary where you can respond like normal without second guessing. I met a man that was a smooth talker and read the dictionary for fun and he used big words in sentences that I really understood what he was saying. So do believe that you are the SMARTEST! If you didn't have what it takes you would not have your job or be asking this question for answers that you already have answers too. Your confidence is already there you just have too stop living on what everyone else thinks about you. I feel like this: If a person is not paying my bills or raising my children or looking good, forget them.
Get a part time bartending job, that will bring you out of your shell.
Then read or watch The Secret.
And like the others say, believe in yourself, stand up tall and be confident.
You already have it in you. Most people hide behind those professional looks anyway - they are scared inside. Just believe in yourself and your capabilities.
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