Have u ever done something bad but cant tell the one person u wish u could?
Has anyone ever been through this, if so could u please advise me on what to do.
Nell
Answer:
Yes I have, but thats the way it is. I did the bad thing, and everyday I wish I could tell this person, but I can't. But thats the price im paying. Things could be worse, I could tell this this person and the sh1t would hit the fan. And we dont want that do we ?
So I keep my gob shut forever !
5 years 3 months and counting..Im in the clear.
i know it hurts to do something terrible to someone you care about but YOU NEED TO TELL them. it will be better for you in the long run. what if they find out what you did from someone else. imagine how badly they would be hurt.
Yes - it's so awful isn't it?
You have to just decide - if you tell the person it could irretrievably damage your relationship with them - they may never trust you again - but you might feel better about it.
On the other hand - the regrets will lessen over time and you need not damage the relationship at all if you can just be strong.
I'd question the reason WHY you want to tell them.
If it would make you feel better but cause the other person a ton of suffering then I say live with the guilt and say nothing.
Sorry to hear that you are so troubled. If you tell the person concerned what you have done it may alleviate your guilt but what about them? You could just burden them with something that they would have been better off not knowing. Will telling be helpful? Is it really as bad as you think? I hope that you can find peace with yourself. Good luck.
If its eating up at you like this maybe you should just tell them!!
they may just find out in the end!
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