ok my boyfriend has told me he loves me its not even been two months but i know he means it i cant say it back cuz i dont feel it just yet i've been hurt before by the only guy i said i love you to and i know my boyfriend wont hurt me but im scared to love again I want to let him love me but im scared and i might be falling for him what do i do to overcome this fear?
Answer:
Only time (and possibly therapy) can heal a wound like that. If you feel really overwhelmed by this, get some counseling. Tell your boyfriend that you are and he will probably be more than happy to wait a while and see how things come out. If you're just a little unsure, tell him the truth. Tell him about the old boyfriend, what he did to you, and how it made you feel. And if you are falling for him, don't fight it, but feel free to wait before acting on your feelings until you feel safe. There's plenty of time to find out.
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