I've developed this strong bond with a girl I met online.?

We have been talking for about a yr now on the phone, online, we've just had some great times together. But eventually I let this girl consume my life and it drove me crazy so I kind of just snapped which resulted in our relationship ending. I think that was the best thing for me so I can finally get my life back but it's just that b'cuz we ended on a bad note she may not consume my life but she still consumes my mind, my conscience won't let me let her go. Also I can't get her off my mind bcuz I can't help but to think that one day she'll come back (that's what she told my aunt a while back). But the reality is I don't think she will, how do I face that reality and move on? Also another terrible thing is that we never even met and that's needed to gain closure right? Or is there another way to gain closure?

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you could write/call her and apologize for going off instead of talking about how you were feeling. If she has an answering machine you could at least try that way you could feel a little bit better.

I THINKS ITS GREAT U TWO R TOGETHER!! Look she will come back for you and eventually you guys will meet in person so dont worry about it and do things in your life thats important first and then u will be happy with the girl and not to worry about anything of work or family matters cause u already took care of them.
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Isn't it enough to know you have a friend out there. Why do you need it to be " all " or " nothing ".

I would exchange phone numbers, even if she is out of state (we'll assume). Then agree to meet in a common place, such as a restaurant or shopping mall. Hotels are bad ideas. The fact that your like this one a lot tells me that she's a keeper.

Excuse me, but it was a verbal relationship. Never a visual one, find a physical person to talk to. you haven't a clue as to what each other look like. It in essence wasn't real, more like a fantasy with a voice.

I'm going out on a limb here but it sounds like you had a symbiot relationship. In other words you were the host and she was the fungus. She could not exist without you. Another way to put it is this. She was the vampire(in this case Psychic vampire)you were the blood(energy). Driving you crazy was how she sapped your strength(energy) at the same time it gave her strength(energy). There are many psychic vampires out there. Your best defence is to avoid them at all costs. I left a job to get away from one. You can have closure by moving on and finding another friend who is nice and doesn't feed off of you. Find someone like yourself. She will find another symbiot relationship because she knows you can't meet her needs anymore. She will find another poor innocent to consume. You did the right thing.

Real is real and online is online. With online relationships half of it is in your mind. You might as well be consumed by an actress playing a part in a movie or the heroine in a book.

On the other hand, been there and done that, more than once. Listen to a lot of blues and/or sad-hearted country music until it clears your mind.

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