I had parents that never respected me much so i never learn,t to do?
it much how do you do it
Answer:
HUH?
I answered a previous question of yours , I feel you feel quite alone, and have no guidence, always you can learn everyday your learning, I 've struggled in life , every one does, the main thing is doing something for yourself, hey my parents are not even like that to tell me to do this , and grabbing my hands , I do it for me , and you look big in the family remember this, but also always be good to your parents and younger older sis and bro.
It's never to late to learn. It may take a lot of practice but that's just a choice away.
I decided to practice self respect about 16 years ago and I do a pretty good job of it most of the time now.
Good luck
It is difficult to respect yourself if you never had any from your parents, who are the biggest influence in the most informative yrs of your life.
You need to figure out what it is about yourself that you like and appreciate you for who you are. One of the hardest things you'll ever do is learning to like yourself but it is possible.
A mommy cat teaches her young how to clean themselves... a kitten who loses the mommy too young doesn't learn how to lick its paw & clean behind its ears... that's something I observed by watching my cat who was always straying & getting hurt in fights...
I guess you need to ask yourself:
Do you matter?
Are you important?
If you answer YES! you're going to be OK... cos you have integrity...
answer negatively, guess you need to find a surrogate mom i.e. someone who does treat you with respect so you learn from their good example.
In the absence of such a (good) person, guess you need to look for clues by noting how other people who are happy get along, reading the right books etc.
Good luck & God Bless
Like you parents, my parents did no show me trust or respect. However I have learnt that to be respected and trusted you have to treat others the way you would like to be treated by them. You have to lead by example so that others see it too. 20 years down the line I have a wonderful family with 3 teenagers - My children know that I am the parent but they also know that I respect their individuality and that I have trust in them - as I told them - once trust and respect is gained it is a very precious thing - the last thing you want to do is to throw it all away. Remember, you are who you are - someone special , an individual like no other; Treat others as you would have liked to have been treated by your parents - with respect and trust - then others will also reciprocate. True friends will love you for who you are not for what you can give them. Good Luck
Treat others as you would like to be treated by them.
Think about what you respect in other people that you genuinely like. Perhaps you could use them as role models so you could try to be more like them. But always be genuinely YOU. You are an important individual. It would be great if people could respect you for your genuineness, honesty, trustworthiness and knowledge perhaps... you could be a great and respected friend.
we learn so much from our parents, but sadly can learn the negative things too. i supose you have relearn how to be respectful to people. i always try to treat people and speak to people how id like to be treated myself.just keep practicing this and it should start to come naturally.also people will be far more positive towards you.change is always possible if we want something enough.
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Answer:
HUH?
I answered a previous question of yours , I feel you feel quite alone, and have no guidence, always you can learn everyday your learning, I 've struggled in life , every one does, the main thing is doing something for yourself, hey my parents are not even like that to tell me to do this , and grabbing my hands , I do it for me , and you look big in the family remember this, but also always be good to your parents and younger older sis and bro.
It's never to late to learn. It may take a lot of practice but that's just a choice away.
I decided to practice self respect about 16 years ago and I do a pretty good job of it most of the time now.
Good luck
It is difficult to respect yourself if you never had any from your parents, who are the biggest influence in the most informative yrs of your life.
You need to figure out what it is about yourself that you like and appreciate you for who you are. One of the hardest things you'll ever do is learning to like yourself but it is possible.
A mommy cat teaches her young how to clean themselves... a kitten who loses the mommy too young doesn't learn how to lick its paw & clean behind its ears... that's something I observed by watching my cat who was always straying & getting hurt in fights...
I guess you need to ask yourself:
Do you matter?
Are you important?
If you answer YES! you're going to be OK... cos you have integrity...
answer negatively, guess you need to find a surrogate mom i.e. someone who does treat you with respect so you learn from their good example.
In the absence of such a (good) person, guess you need to look for clues by noting how other people who are happy get along, reading the right books etc.
Good luck & God Bless
Like you parents, my parents did no show me trust or respect. However I have learnt that to be respected and trusted you have to treat others the way you would like to be treated by them. You have to lead by example so that others see it too. 20 years down the line I have a wonderful family with 3 teenagers - My children know that I am the parent but they also know that I respect their individuality and that I have trust in them - as I told them - once trust and respect is gained it is a very precious thing - the last thing you want to do is to throw it all away. Remember, you are who you are - someone special , an individual like no other; Treat others as you would have liked to have been treated by your parents - with respect and trust - then others will also reciprocate. True friends will love you for who you are not for what you can give them. Good Luck
Treat others as you would like to be treated by them.
Think about what you respect in other people that you genuinely like. Perhaps you could use them as role models so you could try to be more like them. But always be genuinely YOU. You are an important individual. It would be great if people could respect you for your genuineness, honesty, trustworthiness and knowledge perhaps... you could be a great and respected friend.
we learn so much from our parents, but sadly can learn the negative things too. i supose you have relearn how to be respectful to people. i always try to treat people and speak to people how id like to be treated myself.just keep practicing this and it should start to come naturally.also people will be far more positive towards you.change is always possible if we want something enough.
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