My best friend is angry that i'm dating her brother...wat do i do?

i'm a 19 yr old girl. i'm going steady with my best friend's elder brother. he's 21. i was just about to tell my friend about it.just wanted to wait to see if things between me n her bro really work out. but i landed myself in a great mess. she walked in on us when we were making out. we were embarrased but i thought it's good that she knows. but she's just too angry with me after that. she yelled and shouted at me when i approached her. she didn't give any reason why she was angry.whether it the hiding part or anything else. she just refuses to even talk to me. i talked to my bf and he told me to just let her be and approach her when she's cooled down a bit...even he seems to be at a loss figuring out why she's over-reacting. why could she be doing this? how do i get her to talk to me about it calmly? how do i go about with the situation? plz help me...she's been my best friend since we were 5..

Answer:
TIME IS A GREAT HEALER Just play it cool for a while it will resolve itself.

she's kinda overreacting.she may be mad because she's scared you want to spend more time with her brother than her.I'd try talking to her and confront her with the problem,tell her she's overreacting ,then ask her why.me & my friend had the same problem,so I told her brother it wouldn't work and I regret it.

good luck.she will understand eventually.

I suppose she might somehow see it as you betraying her, though I don't know why. I'd think if you two have been so close for so long, she'd think it was great that you were dating her brother.

I agree with her brother, wait for her to cool down then ask her why she's so upset. If she can't really tell you and just goes on about the fact you're dating her brother, you need to ask her to take some time to figure out exactly what it is about the situation that has her so freaked.

Yeah she's right talk to her when she calms down. And talk to her when her brother is not around. Maybe she is scared that if you and her brother ever break up you are going to put her in the middle of your relationship. Or your brother is going to be taking all of you guys time away from eachother. You are going to be spending more time with him then her if they live in the same house. If your bestfriend is really that mad to do think it's worth messing your friendship up?

You will have to wait until she is ready to talk about it unfortunately, but don't let it go for too long. She is probably hurt that it was kept from her and she had to find out in that way. You two are best friends but you weren't honest with her. Let her calm down and come to terms with it then tell her exactly why you didn't tell her to begin with.

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