I feel trapped here in inner city manchester, i long to emmegrate far away, to be free of the restraints?
of this thuggish society and crime. but i have a terrible lot to overcome. im 29. never worked, live in a small council flat. isuffer with borderline personality disorder and have suffered alot of trauma since 15. i long to be free, like a bird of prey, high in the sky, free, migrating to warmer, friendlier climates. but i live in fear this will never happen. i feel trapped where iam. like i can never leave this situation. this flat. leave manchester. im waiting to be assesed for therapy. the road feels like a long one for me, like my dreams are impossible to achieve. what will i do? does anyone else feel like this? my goal ultimatly is to emmegrate and move away. but right now icant see it happening on this dull. dark evening in manchester.i have many rivers to cross, the highway is extremely long, with my hopes and dreams like a tiny pin prick at the end, very remote
Answer:
Go ahead - there seems there's nothing here for you
Louis Palmer, stop "living" in fear... there's NO conspiracy against you! Manchester like most cities is a place for people with money & if you haven't got any, or very little, life IS difficult... You've got a set of conditions (as we all have) that you must overcome... & you WILL do that IF YOU want to suceed.
Just get a STRATEGY.
Where ideally would you like to live?
HOW can you get there? How long will that take?
WHAT do you need to do to achieve your goals?
Define those, & put all NEGATIVE thoughts out with the dustbins.
What you are suffering is common of people throughout the world in inner cities - through events that have happened in their lives. All I wish you to do is seek therapy a.s.a.p. which you can push via your GP. Also if you go along to the Job Centre they may just have a part time job that suits you and you will learn to communicate with others (face to face) perhaps on a small part time basis. Then you can take it from there. Dont give up - there are many roads for you to cross you know - but you need to give yourself the push - no one else can do it for you. I have been there and turned my life around without no help from outsiders and as much as I hate to say it - you can do - I sincerely hope so.
Even a walk during the day by the way can lift your spirits - it works wonders for the brain.
i really feel for you.you must change your attitude and start making positive changes in your life, and allow your dreams to come true.you need a way to make some money, if you want to leave this country. i dont blame you, the country has gone to the dogs and so many people are leaving england to go abroad, as the quality of life is so much better, not to mention the weather.Bulgaria is a good one, as you can literally buy a property for less than £2000, with fruit trees, land and a well.there are other options.follow your dream and make it happen.you can do it.good luck
It is pretty obvious you will feel trapped wherever you end up. Face facts the grass always seems greener on the other side. It is apparent from the information you give in support of your question, that you will never escape the boredom of your life unless YOU make the effort and sort yourself out. You do seem to have worked out your problem, now have the confidence to face your demons head on. Good luck.
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Go ahead - there seems there's nothing here for you
Louis Palmer, stop "living" in fear... there's NO conspiracy against you! Manchester like most cities is a place for people with money & if you haven't got any, or very little, life IS difficult... You've got a set of conditions (as we all have) that you must overcome... & you WILL do that IF YOU want to suceed.
Just get a STRATEGY.
Where ideally would you like to live?
HOW can you get there? How long will that take?
WHAT do you need to do to achieve your goals?
Define those, & put all NEGATIVE thoughts out with the dustbins.
What you are suffering is common of people throughout the world in inner cities - through events that have happened in their lives. All I wish you to do is seek therapy a.s.a.p. which you can push via your GP. Also if you go along to the Job Centre they may just have a part time job that suits you and you will learn to communicate with others (face to face) perhaps on a small part time basis. Then you can take it from there. Dont give up - there are many roads for you to cross you know - but you need to give yourself the push - no one else can do it for you. I have been there and turned my life around without no help from outsiders and as much as I hate to say it - you can do - I sincerely hope so.
Even a walk during the day by the way can lift your spirits - it works wonders for the brain.
i really feel for you.you must change your attitude and start making positive changes in your life, and allow your dreams to come true.you need a way to make some money, if you want to leave this country. i dont blame you, the country has gone to the dogs and so many people are leaving england to go abroad, as the quality of life is so much better, not to mention the weather.Bulgaria is a good one, as you can literally buy a property for less than £2000, with fruit trees, land and a well.there are other options.follow your dream and make it happen.you can do it.good luck
It is pretty obvious you will feel trapped wherever you end up. Face facts the grass always seems greener on the other side. It is apparent from the information you give in support of your question, that you will never escape the boredom of your life unless YOU make the effort and sort yourself out. You do seem to have worked out your problem, now have the confidence to face your demons head on. Good luck.
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