How can you find your self? tell me the ways...?

Hey friends!! write me your views how to find or make yourself?
Specially when you are among the a hundred of very successful people. Because human mind will always compare you with the others and you will find you in the very deep well with darkness.

How can we stop our mind behaving like this? Share your views.

Answer:
In my point of view I'd say that you have to spend quality time on yourself to find yourself..By spending time with yourself, you bring out yourself to the world..about being in comparison with someone, I'd say that you have to think positive on things..Hope this helps...
The best way is to move away from everyone you know. Say another city, take a new job. get away form old influences.
Start a new life. Change your phone number. This will force you to find yourself. Starting over anew somewhere else will make you resourceful. Also if you don't already start an exercise program. get in top shape. Eat right.
Begin to save your money and budget. plan all aspects of your life. plan out meals budgets, then you can figure out your net worth and help your accounts to grow.
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First of all you need to spend some time in meditation, reason with yourself and try to figure out who, what, why, are you like that and then you decide what to do about it.

The human mind is very strong, You, Me, Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister, Uncle, Auntie, Gran dad, Gran mother, the complete Stranger.

Don't just do what others do because what works for the other person won't necessarily work for you!

Good Luck on your journey.
Stop comparing with others . That is the weakness everybody owns it . Pl. try to avoid and be as you are. You are important to you. You will take care of yourself among in any stressful situation , and that is You. Yours VRVRAO
see as far as my techniques are concerned i do meditation for 20 minutes everyday and i know it is vey difficult to practice it but one can achieve proficiency in it by doing it daily. any type of physical activity be it aerobics, free dancing styles, yoga, outdoor and indoor games can provide u satisfaction and happiness as the positive mood boosters is activated by it and u start feeling more of pleasureness and completeness and there is no need to compare urself with others as u r as good as anybody can be. if they r good at one thing u can be good at another thing so. don't feel sorry for urself. remmember one thing nobody can be immensely endowed with more of anything a dancer can be a good singer but he may not be a good actor. discover urself and im pretty sure that u have something worthwhile in urself.
i have learned about myself & others in times of crisis. that is when you have an opportunity to learn what you are made of & what others are made of as well.

then later, reflect on what you've learned. try to be honest about your strengths & weaknesses. it's difficult & i didn't do this until is was in my 20s. take responsibility for the mistakes you have made in your life, don't displace blame onto others. i have tried to live this. it's difficult, but i think it's the only way to really learn who you are. and to try to build on your strengths.
Mine is short and simple. Figure out what makes you the happiest and work your way in achieving it. You will find and know yourself while trying to achieve that goal or that thing.
Be yourself and do your best.

That is all any one can do.

You have control over you alone and no one else, so be yourself.
We can't like you said the human mind will always compare you with others. But the way you can find yourself is just be yourself. Don't try to follow in others steps. My mom always says that don't follow others cause that only makes you a follower. I mean it is good to learn from others but don't change yourself cause of others. But change your flaws. The only way you're find yourself is being true your own self. Every individual is different. And the flaws we see in are self's we don't see in others. But to find your self you need to be your self.
hi...better change your living place...that will give you a fresh and different look...and you can get out of ur problems.
first thing believe in urself ur abilities and be very confident and set a goal u want to achieve and even the hard times come juz stay focussed on whatever u do??
and make sure u keep in touch with everyone as same even after achieving something in ur lifeand makes u different from rest...
Every successful person got his own mental capacity, you are nothing to do with it. You got your own entity, why do you bother about others. After comparing with others you should not feel that you are placed as low. Instead of that you should feel that you are also at par and try to place your self high. For that you have to think big, do big and live big. Then only it is possible to place your self among the successful lot.

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