Is consistency being ourself or being what we want to be?
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I think that growing up is conciliating what we are with what we want to be. Usually at your core you have very well defined traits and character qualities (or defects) Most of our personality disorders come about when we 'feel' some way and still act in another. Your true nature always shows, and when it does people see right through you and it begets mistrust. "You can fool some people all the time, or you may fool all the people some of the time, but you can't fool all the people all the time"
This essence does not change much over time and if it does it is because of traumatic events that redefine our stance. The fact of the matter is that we are not alone in this world and as long as we live in a society we are required to 'conform' to a broadly accepted code of conduct weather we agree with it or not. Now that said, you choose your social circle and the question that all of us should ask ourselves is if this circle doesn't appeal to us then why do we fight so much to fit in? Wouldn't it be easier to find some others more akin? Would you like to be stuck 'playing' someone else for the rest of your life? If you do, then you are the bread and butter of psychologist. . . I guess what I'm saying is you are what you are and instead of trying to be anything else you are much better off pondering how to harness your abilities rather than to 'invent' a new you.
good balance in emotions can be considered as consistency ...
logic thinking is a bit strange .. generally people dont like coherent people ...ala socrates
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