I am feeling depressed today just had enough of it all, problems,?

and people get me down sometimes, i don,t even want to go back to a small church group cos some bloke was very rude dan some women laughed and i cried secretly although their are some nice people their. I don,t feel at all comtable their with them. should i go back and ignore them or what cos i did enjoy it before

Answer:
You should go back and let them know you don't appreciate that at a church gathering you are made to feel upset. Stand up for yourself you don't deserve to feel bad, and no one has the right to degrade you. Good luck.
They don't sound very Christian people! AVOID THEM
backed into a corner ?depression can't get you out!
There's something strange about a Church group member being unkind to another.
Talk to the others about your problem - it may be something in your own attitude that is behind it. - Ask them to be honest, as you are so unhappy.
And, OF COURSE, pray about it. Never doubt the power of prayer. I'll pray, too.
Sorry you are not feeling to great right now. It sounds quite unusual for a member of a church group to be rude. The others may have laughed out of uncomfortableness. I wouldn't right the group off, there are some nice people there, focus on them and perhaps ask the ones you get on with to pray with you. Remember, in this world you are never alone, and you are loved. God Bless x
I understand. You need to stay away from the "toxic" people who can bring you down. As far as problems go, we all have them. What I've donw in the past is list your problems one by one and deal with them that way, one at a time. It wosks most of the time
I would say don't let others stop you doing what you enjoy, but if you really do feel that uncomfortable when in their company, it means the enjoyment has gone, so why put yourself through it?

If it is really getting you down and making you depressed then don't go back. If you feel strong enough to hold your head high and ignore the few idiots trying to ruin your fun, then do so.

It all depends on what you feel stronger about, what you focus on most - your enjoyment, or the bullies trying to stop you having it.
What exactly are you referring to as "rude" please.

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