What do u lack in ur life?.?
Answer:
love and trust. i just can't seem to allow myself to connect with people.
In the maslow's hierachy of needs,I lacked level 4 which is self-actualization need.
Here is another way you can tell if you are lacking anything in life.
Apart from physical needs, all humans need to fulfil several important emotional needs:
these needs are:
# Security — safe territory and an environment which allows us to develop fully
# Attention (to give and receive it) — a form of nutrition
# Sense of autonomy and control — having volition to make responsible choices
# Being emotionally connected to others
# Feeling part of a wider community
# Friendship, intimacy — to know that at least one other person accepts us totally for who we are, “warts 'n' all”
# Privacy — opportunity to reflect and consolidate experience
# Sense of status within social groupings
# Sense of competence and achievement
# Meaning and purpose — which come from being stretched in what we do and think.
We have also developed innate resources which help us meet these needs, which are:
* The ability to develop complex long term memory, which enables us to add to our innate knowledge and learn
* The ability to build rapport, empathise and connect with others
* Imagination, which enables us to focus our attention away from our emotions, use language and problem solve more creatively and objectively
* A conscious, rational mind that can check out emotions, question, analyse and plan
* The ability to 'know' — that is, understand the world unconsciously through metaphorical pattern matching
* An observing self — that part of us that can step back, be more objective and be aware of itself as a unique centre of awareness, apart from intellect, emotion and conditioning
* A dreaming brain that preserves the integrity of our genetic inheritance every night by metaphorically defusing expectations held in the autonomic arousal system because they were not acted out the previous day.
These needs and resources are called 'human givens' and if you're not getting your needs met or using your resources in the right way, then you may feel like there is something lacking in your life
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