Are people more in love with the idea of love than the actual person?
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It is possible to be in love with the idea of loving someone. We all want to be in that special relationship and put more into the whole idea of what the relationship means to them rather then what the other person truly means to them. If you are asking this question it is very possible you are not in love right now. However I know love exists I have been married 13 years and love my husband very much. I love him different now then I did in the beginning because love starts small and grows as time goes on. But I knew for sure he was the one. There were times before him I thought I loved someone but looking back I know now it was the idea of wanting to be in love I was in love with. Hope this helps!
at times
probably seeing as how love is like one of those fun fairy tale things and humans if horrid and nasty
Sometimes, but that will fade after time. I've been in love with the same person for 43 tears. I think that is being in love with the person.
No, I don't think so
Sometimes that can be true. Sometimes people flirt with each other and beyond that, the relationship turns into nothing - because they're more in love with the fact of love rather than the actual person.
Love isn't really an 'idea', as I've known it. It is more a motivating Energy, and yes I have enjoyed it quite a lot.
Uh, it has its downside...It being more powerful than me, It has tended to eat me up in the past, the very thing that makes women run for their sanity. (oops)
Yes, because we picture love as perfect, perfect emotions, perfect person. Unfortunately it is never the case with a real person.
love is honestly being willing to suffer instead of the other person.
Honestly being ready to give up life if it would give life to the other person.
If you cannot be honest with yourself enough to know you would do these things, then you do not love the other person.
Whether it be a friend, mother, spouse or stranger.
Being in love is something for 15 year old girls. It is only a moment in a relationship that changes into loyalty and responsibility.
I know that was the case in my last relationship, I loved being in love. Yes, he was a nice man..but it wasn't him I loved, it was the "idea of love".
i myself would say idea because when you a small child most the time you parents would tell you one day when you grow up you will meet the right person for you. and there the seed in embedded into your thoughts. and after hearing that time and time again you could say you became brain washed . and then as you grow up it becomes part of who you have become in that you are always looking for that person that i have always dreamed of meeting , being you already have a preconceived idea of what you want in a "mate". mate referring to the animal kingdom and the mating rituals of animals in nature... enough for now. thx
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