How do you judge people...honestly?

People always talk about what personality traits they look for and then they list a little bit about asthetics so they don't sound too superficial ,but honestly, would even look twice even couldn't see that person on your arm from the beginning? It takes awhile for me to really warm up to people(trust issues) and then I fall fast and looks never get factored in. What about you? Sometimes I look at a person I like and I wonder if they would look good even if I didn't like their personality and I can't answer that question. I'm not sure whether I'm not superficial or I'm just in denial about my superficiality. I can look at someone and decide if they're asthetically pleasing or not ,but I could never think to myself "Oh, they're so hot and I'd like to get to know them better." like so many other people do. What can of conflict is this and what conflict do you find yourself facing?

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I try to accept people at face value, in other words, I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt and just see how it goes. Unless a person gives me a good reason not to like them, I can usually accept and get along with anyone. I would rather a woman have a nice sincere personality than all the beauty in the world. I go for those who are real, that is, not putting on a show just to impress. I can spot that really quickly. With me, as people view me, what they see is what they get. I cut to the chase & don't play games or mess with peoples' heads. Hope that tells you something about me, the Count ( Brian)

Sad to say but looks play a big part in society... i don't agree with it but it's true when you look at someone their looks say alot about how they take care of themselves and how they feel about themselves and if they lack confidence that can hurt in their career & love endeavors.

I know that this sounds funny but if I were you I would simply try my hardest not to judge a person. From whatever perspective you are looking through.. try not to judge them

never judge a person by what they look like... its a horrible thing to do... alot of ppl do and we cant stop it but u shouldn't judge anything or anyone by what they look like

Here is how I judge everyone including you. It is from a short article of mine. "People are looking for miracles. If anyone says that you are a miracle, they are wrong. You are THE miracle. You know this, deep down inside of you. In reality, you are beyond time and space. You are the most incredible thing to ever exist. You are much more wonderful than you can possibly imagine. But when you do experience what you really are, you are in perfect peace and total contentment. The whole universe is waiting for the greatest miracle-- for you to discover what you truly are."

ok i judge people by there atitiude and if they r truthful.

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