Do I have a Lolita Complex? Or another type of complex? How to deal with it? Please help.?

After visiting Japan, I have a thing for looking at Japanese high school girls with their sailor uniforms and all. I don't want to sleep with them or anything, but to me, they resemble innocence and cuteness. I soon found myself buying non-pornographic magazines that had pictures of them (some as young as 14) showing off their panties under their skirts and stuff. I've had a tame past and I've heard the saying, "The more innocent a guy was in his past, the more likely it is for him to fall for some young thing.". I'm worried that I may have a Lolita Complex, but those girls just seem so innocent and cute.

Answer:
Be responsible and do the right thing. No searching for those young porno pics. You don't have a complex or anything, maybe a fetish but there's nothing wrong with that. Just do the right thing and stay in control of yourself.
Beauty is meant to be admired. Innocence is a beautiful thing even it's only perceived.

Youth is also very nice.

Perhaps you've been deprived of cuteness through your life and you're attempted to fill a gap.

Cute girls have always made my day brighter, not necessarily 14 year olds, though. But to each his own, since it's not a sexual matter.
I won't tell you who you can and can not find attractive. For whatever it's worth, you've got my blessings.

But I answered this to remind you of one thing: Do not touch any underage girl.

good luck
This sort of thinking must be very common, and in a sense "normal" for a significant portion of the male population, otherwise there wouldn't be such a huge market for these kinds of images - real, in magazines, and on the Internet. And it has been around for a long, long time, so it's not something new. What to do about it, either on an individual level or by society as a whole, is a very complex problem, and not one which will be easily solved.
I think you need to be a little more honest with yourself.

So, just what sort of relations do you have with women your own age? None too good, I would guess.

Thinking a school uniform is sexy is fine, but that isn't what does it for you, is it?

The girl has to be young and innocent.

Troubling, very troubling.

I think you need to talk to a dcotor.

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