Why are there mixed signals? (10 pts)?

There's this gal that I like and I've told her how I felt last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. However, recently I feel that she puts more interests, except that in this year's students retreat she showed a totally different behavior. She was rather unwell during the retreat and had to take antibiotic.
- Sometimes she did not reply to what I said, when we were in groups.
- When I asked her about the bruise that she got previously, she did not listen clearly and was like moving her head to beckon me to repeat my words. But finally she only said, "I don't know..." and looked at the bruise.
- I asked her a few things, like 'You're sleepy?' but she just kept quiet.
- She once like said that 'Common sense, who will believe that..." when I belived what a friend said.
- During a campfire dance, I danced with her first, but she did not smile and instead was like rather a bit silent, but the next one she smiled a bit.
But they are complete opposite to what she had shown some time ago. She was friendly and teased me and seemed to be interested, lots of eye contacts. But now, she seemed cold, distant and quiet. What actually happens? But she talks to other boys, but seems rather quiet with me. I am shy with her too. And she seemed to be more distant from her pals too. She’s often alone and is very quiet in bus.

Answer:
Maybe an Influence at home or outside of school changed her a little bit...you shouldn't blame yourself for what happens though...You are doing the right thing by trying to talk to her..she is kinda shy though and maybe she thinks you still like her and shes trying to get away from you...Ask people you know that she knows and ask them why is she like that..Don't try to talk and show to much affection to her[as a friend] becuase she might take it as you throwing yourself at her...But anyways if you need more advice or help E-mail or IM me becuase Im good at these sort of topics =]
she is shy or she isn't interested
ask her out again
find some way of doing it
you will wonder for the rest of your days if you dont
make the first move
be brave, good luck xxx
this lady is bipolar. forget her. if she really wanted you she'd make the signs clear. I think you need better. She either doesnt like you or doesnt know what she wants. good luck.

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