How come the saddest people are sometimes the happiest?

for example, my bf and i had a really bad start to our relationship and people who saw hime were like what did you to him he is soo happy. but behind closed doors he was miseralbe, or so it seemed.

are people who are really sad really good at acting happy when they are not? how do they do this. i want to learn how. i need your help.

Answer:
Life is what you make of it. Too many people get sad or angry over seemingly meaningless details. While people who are happy, may not live the 'best lives' in the eyes of the public, but they know what they want and expect out of life, and are happy with what they have.

It is all a mental state. Figure out what is important to you. Some rich people are happy being rich, while others are miserable. Some poor people are happy being poor while others are miserable. It is all that person's perspective on life, and what in life makes them happy.

just dont think about it too much... the sadness stays within

Not all people who are sad can act happy. I guess it depends on the individual. Sorry I couldn't answer your questions.

i don't think that's it at all. i think people who are able to show their emotions, able to be sad, have the ability to also be happy and show this emotion as well. Or it could be that this person is sick of acting sad all the time, so they are trying to be happy even if it's just on the surfice for now.

well some people are very personal so they hide behind a smile. thats how my mother is.

I think it's easier to show people that you don't know very well that fake side of you, in your bf's case, that pretend happy. When he got behind closed doors it was very hard for him to pretend to be happy because you knew him to well. I dont know lol

not all people are good at masking their unhappiness. some people are just good actors - or maybe, they don't want to disappoint or worry others with their misery. often, they want to wallow in their own sadness - and some people also like to think that they are doing others a favour by not sharing their feelings and putting on a happy face.
are you having problems with your bf? i think you should talk to him, and chill.

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