Insecure of myself...?
I'm well aware I barely have any confidence, and I have the lowest self esteem I could feel. Everytime I take pictures, I always look at them in the end and they are all completely gross to me... and i've tried taking more, and more pictures and each time it made me feel more and more worse because I started taking over 100+ and it just really hurts... I can't even get ONE I like because well i'm not sure..
How can I stop this?? I feel so ugly.. like everybody else is more prettier and better then me.
(Didn't want to mention this to my friends because I don't like when people take it as if i'm fishing for compliments.)
Ughh i dont understand/know...
Answer:
u have to stop thinking like that if u start accepting ur self the way u are u are going to feel better go get professional help or do things that u like and that is going to make u feel better remember for every person there's someone special and the person that loves u will love u the way u are but for that u have to stop been so negative
We are surrounded by impossibly beautiful women on TV and film and then we feel we don't measure up, but remember that beauty is only skin deep. When I was younger I fretted about parts of me I didn't like or wasn't completely happy with. If I could only have that younger body back now I would be so thrilled! It's all a matter of perspective. Make the most of what you have that you like about yourself. If you have beautiful eyes, play them up. Long legs? Wear a short skirt to show them off. Whatever you have that makes YOU special; there must be something you like about yourself, right?
The answer above is very true. You have to believe in yourself or no one else will. Looks really aren't everything.
If you really don't like what you see then do something to change what you don't like. A new hairstyle, exercise to firm up, a little make-up in the right places, can all help. What matters more is doing things to help others to make yourself feel better about you.
For a very long time I had extremely low self-esteem, what seemed to work for me was searching inward to find out more about the person I am and the person I want to be. Find something that you know you are good at and obsess about that. A little superiority complex is the fastest way I know of to boost self-esteem. I know you probably don't want to hear the old cliche that inner beauty is what matters, but it is entirely true. Once you realize how good a person you are, or how good you can be, it will show on the exterior. You'll be able to see yourself in a new way and not over-analyze "flaws". Me personally, I know there are people out there that are prettier than me but I'm ok with that. Beautiful people have so many other problems. (like stalkers)
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