In life you meet certain individuals' who gets under your skin and disturb you?
Their selfish ways, or they try to manipulate etc..
I am christian, and I cant help this bitterness
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I have no religion, and I feel the same. Not saying that anyone is better or less of a person than the next, but some people really are too arrogant or too selfish or too stuck up.
It's not bitterness or jealousy, it's just these people are too... something.
I believe people should have a little of every quality, so that they are fully human and can empethise and relate to others. Irritating people generally have too much of one or two qualities..... OK! I'm ranting now, so I'll shut up!
Why are you bitter about people being crappy? The world is full of them. I feel sorry for them and have compassion for their suffering. They aren't happy. I try to be even kinder to them, as Christ or Buddha would have been. I worry about myself and being kind to others and keep the focus on me.
u jus gotta learn to ignore them, dont give them the power to determine your mood
Yep,majority of the people at my job gets on my nerve's,lol...
Its to do with transference you should read some Freud, seriously its an eye opener
Have you read your bible lately? Jesus got really pissed at the money lenders at the temple. Wow has Christianity turned into some happy place la la land?
Unfortuanetly, we can't pick our family. But just remember we can't get along with everyone in this world. If we were all the same how boring the world would be! Don't feel bad or bitter about it, just accept it - it's a part of life, christian or not.
Become an Athiest and then there's no guilt in how you feel.
Simple.
difuse them with kindness. Or stay away from them. Family are unavoidable but you will someday be rid of bothersome co-workers. It is a challenge. I bet Jesus was even annoyed by some people but he never went postal according to the scriptures.
I honestly feel that its not possible for everyone to get alone with everyone. I also do feel though, that YOU need to remain true to yourself and not allow those who "get under your skin, manipulate, selfishness, etc" to change you or your ways. Don't stoop to any level that you are not comfortable with.
Don't over do trying to make these people like you. And don't overdo you're trying to like these people. Be cordial, polite, happy and mostly...yourself. Let them be themselves. If they want to go through life that way, let that be up to them.
Being a Christian doesn't absolve you from having human feelings. But as a Christian, you should be able to realize that you are not perfect and be able to accept others inperfections as well. We all do the best we can.
Hi Hun, i'm the same as you, some people at my work really get up my nose and are very nasty! I often wonder if they knew what they sounded like they would stop and think before opening their mouths! But sometimes when it gets too much for me, i think.hmmmmm i wonder if they actually think the same about me! We shouldn't waste our times worrying about it, but thats human nature i guess! :)
It's called 'er indoors.
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