Anyone else spend their time always thinking about tomorrow?

What I mean is never being happy in the now and always looking to the future and that "thing" that will make everything just right.

Answer:
Not really, Cause im pretty sure tomorrow wont have anything good to give me. ive given up hope.
all the time, i also think alot about the past.
OMG, dude, ALL THE TIME
I annoy myself even!

I don't even know how to explain it.

For me its more worrying i think.
Worrying if I'll make it.
Will i make it to the tomorrow i want for myself?

Everything i do, everyone i meet even, i start thinking where this will go, where this will take me, how its going to end and will it be a positive factor in my life.

I'm always thinking of whats next, whats after this, how's this going to end, always asking: "and then whats going to happen"

Living for right now is almost I'mpossible for me, im scared even to have conversations because of how they'll end up, what I'll end up saying, what the other person will end up thinking of me...

And i am waiting for that turning point in my life, when I'll discover who i am, and what I'm here for and I'll DO IT

And i don't know how to start looking for it, or where to find it.

And I'm so jealous of other people who don't have this problem , i know there are LOADS out there!

I see them going merrily about there lives, they don't have sleepless nights, they make decisions with ease, they always know the right thing to say, the don't even know the meaning of the word Anxiety.
There's little else that can compare to the good feeling
I've been known to feel from taking time out of my day,
7 days a week, to plan ahead; and I mean not just plan
for the day ahead, but planning for my future years.
Cat Stevens said, in one of his songs: "But I might die
tonight!" Much as I liked his songs of the '70s, I cannot
agree with that philosophy.
Only a person with a zero-level of self-esteem would
not bother to make plans and/or set goals.
Think about it.

Good luck.
well it's good to look to the future as long as you have a plan. I mean like you plan to get a degree, plan to get a higher degree and specialty, a plan to volunteer your time, plan to marry, have children, buy a house, buy a nice car, be a saver of anything, save your money for retirement. That's all good.

Sometimes people do spend a lot of time thinking about tomorrow, obsessing is not good, however trying to stay within your plan is just fine. Maybe you haven't learned how to be happy. Sometimes children aren't taught to be happy. So you have to find some interests of your own and enjoy what you're doing, that is called happiness for adults.

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