Any tips on coping with abandonment issues?
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By realizing, acknowledging and embracing the fact that you are a survivor, you've grown up with parents who are selfish and have poor parenting skills, you have learnt things that your acquaintances with more surportive parents haven't, this knowledge will serve you well in the future, knowledge is after all power. Also think about the fact that not all people are wonderful and b'ches and b'tards are not born infertile, they have kids, its just a random card that fate has dealt you, as one of the other answers said 'look forward, to the future'. Through adversity you gain strength. Take care sweet one
ahh, poor you.
let me give you a great big virtual hug!
your mother is this way too?
im in the same situation with my father but i still see my mother
This is just awful for you. Yes feelings will def resurface from time to time in your life. Do you see them at all? I feel for you but just by reading your question it sounds to me like you have been very strong already, just keep talking about your feelings.
Oh I really feel for you,you could keep a journal and pour your heart out its always better out than kept inside,good luck
Life is hard. You just have to try to learn to love yourself and find your own self-worth.
This is something I've struggled with all my life
Good luck
Honey, that's almost my entire family.
I try to focus on my friendships. They are what keep me going most of the time.
weed and beer ma! for real try it.
Dear one,
God said that when our mothers and fathers foresake us then he is there for us. U are not alone... God is with u always... Keep your head up and look to God to comfort and strengthen you.. It is your parents who have missed out on such a beautiful person as yourself... Perhaps they need to forgive themselves and then ask for your forgiveness...
just had a business idea for you what about www.adoptaparent.com.Sorry to hear your dilemma i recommend counselling my parents split when i was 4 in touch with both made them realise they were selfish b******* send them both a letter explaining how you feel it's a piece of paper you can say what you want as for your feelings, totally natural.good luck
Remember that you got yourself to where you are now by yourself without their help.
It's normal to be jealous however don't let it consume you. Build your life around the people that you care about and who care about you.
Hi there .. .never look back always look forward ..
Remember this and this will keep you strong xx
do you mean you are scared of being dumped? that is a chance in any relationship. just take every day as it comes . remeber
yesterday has gone and cannot be changed
tomorrow has not arrived yet so it is pointless worrying about it.
sadly we cant choose our parents!also not everyone is a natural loving, nurturing parent, and they do make mistakes that can affect us, if we allow it to.I really sympathise with you, but i would say in the case of your parents, "what goes around comes around", and they might find that as they get older, and need love, suport and understanding, it might not be there for them.We cant change the past or our parents, but as adults we have more say in who we have in our lives.therefore my advice to you would be to form close bonds with people that you know wont let you down, and build up your own strong network of people who really do care about your wellbeing.try not to let your parents behavior get you down too much as it was not your fault and theres nothing you could have done to change things.best wishes and good luck.
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