I feel like I'm ruining my own life.?
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stop ruining it.
Need more info.how are you ruining it and what are you doing to ruin it?
I am too. I've officially gotten myself a spot in therapy, but there has to be something I can do.
All I've got, is to pray. Whether you're a Christian, or not, praying will help.
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Write down a list of the things that you are doing that you find are ruining your life, look at those things and write down ways you can start doing the opposite of those things. Also write down a list of things you do that are good and do them more. Whenever you want to do a thing that is on your "ruins" list, do something on the "good" list. It also helps to get therapy 'cause if it was as easy as just changing, the world would be perfect by now. But you can start by putting the brakes on the damaging behaviours.
Sounds like its time to make a dramatic change. Stop hanging out w/ the people who encourage that lifestyle. Start thinking positively.
If you have to move and start over.
Good Luck
Well, that's' not a lot of information to go on. If you think you may be making bad choices then back up and look again. Think about all the possible problems before you make a decision that will affect your life. If you have a substance abuse problem, get help. If you are planning to get married and don't think you are ready - wait until you are sure. If there are not children to worry about, you only have yourself to take care of. Please yourself. Don't make stupid choices because someone else thinks you should.
First thing is stop being hard on yourself. Even if you have done terrible things you clearly regret them and that is a good thing. Take time to recognize the good things you do every day. Not only with help you feel better about yourself but you will find it easier build on the good you are doing.
If you feel you are stuck in a rut talk to someone about it. it may help give you a more objective look at your life and help you recognize what is weighing you down.
If your situation is complicated do not be afraid to seek help. Whether it be from a professional, a friend, or a family member.
Good luck!
You stop doing whatever it is that is causing you to ruin your life. Thank you.
I feel the exact same way you do. Normally when I am stuck a sticky situation either caused my my actions or its just one of life's tests, knowing that it will pass one day helps me out. Try to look at it like this way, everyone makes bad choices and mistakes in life. Sometimes, our choices have massive negative impacts. But we have to learn to accept your choices and the impact they make and above all, try to fix it.
Everything you do is a choice. You think you are ruining your life but really you may just be sad right now.
I don't know you. The best thing I can offer is for you to think about your life. Think about the happiest times in your life. I'm sure you have had many. Then think about why they were happy. Remember that time and who you were back then and maybe you can be that person again. During those happy times you did not feel you were ruining your life.
Go back there in your mind and bring that person into your life today. Bring that happiness back into your life.
The secret to living a happy life is to make your self happy. Only you can help yourself. I'm sure you can do it. Good luck.
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