GenUINE tips for being sUPER confident??
feeling good about oneself??
about ones appearence? self esteem?
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about the appearance. all you have to do is be happy with yourself about how you look. if you like how you look your fine. if you see someone else's style you like don't copy them. customize it according you your exact style and needs.
why would you fear someone else's words. words do not shed blood. and the only persons opinion that matters is your own.
once you can do that the other things will come so easy it's natural
i think your name says it all sweety *wink*
Think of someone who's cool and confident - then pretend you're them. It's surprisingly easy to think what they would say in various situations and adapt it to your own purposes.
finally realizing thats you cant learn confidence, you have to develop it, like i did. im not vain or super self confident. every one can have bad thoughts about themselves once in a while but you have to realize that no one is perfect. we're all human. and at the end of the day it doesnt matter what others really think.
Fake it. Ignore other people if they have nothing nice to say. Just pretend you have the confidence, and eventually, people will notice, and it will come naturally. Just believe in yourself. We are our own worst critic. Whatever we think badly about ourselves, odds are, no one else thinks it.
Think about something you're good at and you feel confident doing, then do everything else in the same style and with the same attitude as which do this.
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I don't think we can give you tips. If we tell you something about ourselves, you might try it and it would be right for us, not for you. If you did that, you would be trying to be someone you're not. I can tell you tho that you should do and think positive things. If negative things come up, address them only as much as you have to and then drop it!!! I think confidence comes as you get older and when you get really old, you won't give a crap what anybody thinks. So there! LOL
JUST BE YOUSELF DONT WORRY WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU, JUST THINK IN 100 YEARS FROM NOW WHO WILL CARE ONE LIFE ENJOY IT BALLS TO EVERYONE ELSE
Think of the sort of person you want to be and tell your self your ARE this person, repeat it in your head troughout the day 10 times at a time (ie I am a confident, popular and successful person).
It sounds stupid and too simple to work but you'll be suprised how good you can feel!
Be care full though. Don't change who you are, just the way you see yourself. You are you and that isn't or ever will be a bad thing!
get yourself down a gym.
you will look better, move better, think better and feel better.
at school I was shrinking violet, a few months in the student gym and I was John Travolta.
on the down-side everyone of your parents generation will be giving you the eye, or worse.
you can't win in life, only play the game.
confidence comes from within.
Self-esteem is how you feel about yourself.
When you are younger it matters what people think about you.
As you grow older it matters so much less.
Basically you have to be happy in your own skin.
If you are content with who you are then others around you will pick up on that.
Your contentment will become infectious.
People will gravitate towards you and want to be in your company.
Spend lots of time and energy being excellent at some thing u have a great passion for.
Pay close attention to your grooming.
Master some body language and relationship techniques.
Be more tactful when handling people.
Save some money.
Learn a new skill.
Worry less, read and work more.
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Best of luck!
ACT like YOU OWN THE WORLD THEN YOU WILL OWN IT
Have you ever noticed how the really super confident people have no REAL friends? It's because they are egocentric delusional nobheads.
Be yourself, be normal, be happy. Everyone has self doubts and has "off days" The trick is to keep going and keep positive 'cos something good and unexpected always comes along.
Knowing what it is you're actually talking about ~ and understanding the context in which your subject fits within other frames really does help.
'Feeling good about one self' ..is dependant upon the context for the self assurance people project. I've met those who seemed 'self assured' but were in effect 'watering down their arrogance' for the sake of appearances.
It was interesting that very few had that much to be arrogant about. And those who were with abilities that gave them their arrogance .well, my appreciation of their abilities was diluted by my lack of appreciation of them in their arrogance.
'Appearance' ~ a matter of taste. It can readily be used as nothing more than camouflage to the reality felt inside.
People can always come up with negatives about the nicest, kindest and caring, giving souls. Knowing ''the reality'' that lays within the self (and acknowledging it to at least ones self) is a good place to start from in building one confidence in ones self.
[ Having something of an understanding as to Why someone needs to try to 'put you down' with negatives, helps too. ]
Sash.
That alone is not the recipe for super confidence. What else do you have to say?
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