What could possibly be wrong with me...am I psychotic?..serious answers only?
Answer:
some medicine and a psyc consult.
the fact that you are posting here is proof thta you realize that was a really f'ed up thing to do.
to be involved in something like that.
relax, throw that dudes phone # away and really, you have to talk to someone.
maybe not in such graphic terms as allows you here, but you do need to bring this out in the open irl
Damn you need to start taking care of yourself. Don't be easy and just give it up to anybody and knowing them for like a day doesn't count so stop and respect yourself. Move on you can probably find a nice amazing man you deserve it.
You are suffering from a sexual hangover. You need to understand and appreciate that sex is only fullfilling in marriage. When you do it outside of marriage, you are harming yourself. There will be an element of guilt.
He just told you what he thought you wanted to hear so he could have sex with you. You aren't psychotic, you're naive. As for the gonorrhea--go to the doctor and get treated. Stop calling this guy--he's done with you. Unfortunately, he used you for sex, and now he's had enough. And for some reason, you allowed yourself to be used.
Simple hint to avoid getting used: Don't have sex with a guy till you've dated him 2 months--that will weed out a lot of losers who don't really care about you.
My advice--never talk to or think about this guy again--he's bad for you in every way. good luck
He's a loser
DAMN
DAMN
DAMN
ok ok u keep calling him ok so stop for Gods sake just stop and did u know he was married man thats sick and wrong and u only knew him that long and started doing it with him o God now i have to take that image out of my head but stop calling him u r acting like a psyco no offence but forget him he's worth crap and he was just probably looking to have a good time go out with someone who is single for one thing and nice.
DAMN.
ps dont sleep with the first guy u see have some diginity.
You're obsessed. Forget him. You'll get over it.
What's wrong with you is that you don't like yourself enough to find someone decent to be with. You're trying to hook your cart up to a fallen star--a guy who's a total loser! (Let his poor, empty-headed wife deal with him.) Take stock of yourself and, once you realize that you're a good person who deserves much better, you'll find the right person (or he will find you). Always remind yourself that you are the type of person who 1. doesn't need to have sex with just any old guy and, 2. is worth being the one CALLED, not the one who does all the CALLING. Get to a doctor and have the gonorrhea taken care of and forget this nut-job. Oh, and find another Internet provider.
If I was a guy I would call you psycho too. 9 days?? I mean, thats not even two weeks, c'mon! I would not have called him after that Sat. out of anger, just txted him for a righteous answer. If no answer was given, I would have said oh well, bye bye to him, I was stupid to fall for it.and then i would have reasoned with myself by saying "what was i expecting, something serious, he must have done this to other women, they all can have his nasty ***, he's just a worthless player kind, i got burned this time", etc. After that I would FEEL like calling him and keying his car, but I would never act on it. He obviously has an incredibly dumb wife, so I guess he enjoys preying on easily influenced females. Guys that treat you like dirt must be attractive to you, but this one should be last on the list. I mean this one is scummier than the worst ones you will come across, because this one actually carries gonorrhea AND he's married!! I mean he turned this into a serious situation for you but he wants nothing to do with cleaning it up. Are you thinkin you and him are soulmates meant for each other? He's already got one, and its his dumbass wife! With this woman, he can screw you and any other woman he sees open up to him and still come home to a meal.
Look, all thats left now is to suck it up, and reason with yourself. Time to get mad at yourself. And go get help from a Dr. Do not call him, its psycho at this point. Use reasoning and common sense to stop you from picking up that phone.
Have you ever seen the movie, "Fatal Attraction"? You are acting like Glenn Close...lol...and no, that's not normal or healthy. You might think about not letting yourself fall prey to such adulterous players. I know you feel hurt, used and betrayed, and part of you wants something back for what you have been put through. You want "love" or "revenge" or both. And I understand that, but you aren't going to get "love" from this creep, even if he were single. You might be able to get "revenge" but at what cost to yourself? It's not worth it. You need to think more highly of yourself and respect yourself more. Having sex with someone who's basically a complete stranger is never a good idea. Of course, you've learned this the hard way...but what I'd like to understand is WHY do you want to have anything more to do with this person? He's a real loser...a creep...he has a wife...a dysfunctional life...he can never be yours, would never be faithful even if he wasn't married. There are plenty of guys out there who are decent, kind and loving and loyal... maybe you should forget about him, forget about revenge, and try to move on. Next time, take some time to really get to know someone before you jump in the sack with them. I'm not judging you, I understand your plight, and can sympathize with your feelings- I just think there are many important lessons for you to have learned from this, and if you have, good! You'll be a stronger, wiser person for it. Let him go...he's SO not worth it. And believe me when I say this: if you continue to call him, he or his wife may end up reporting this to the police and you could find yourself in serious trouble. Let nature's law of "karma" take care of this situation. You don't have to "right the wrong" here...he'll pay for what he's done. You don't need to put yourself in harm's way to see to it. Move on with your life. You're making what you've gone through worse by obsessing over it. Surround yourself with positive things, and remind yourself of your good qualities. You deserve better, and you will find happiness...just not with this guy or guys like him. Good luck to you!
The answers post by the user, for information only, FunQA.com does not guarantee the right.
More Questions and Answers: