Im feeling, i dont know out of place in this society... why?
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Try not to blame yourself...unfortunately, our society seems to give us two paths to "happiness": material wealth, and companionship. We live to work, to buy toys, to support a family, to create offspring - who in turn work, buy toys, create offspring...and on. I believe society encourages this cycle because it helps "everyone" - unfortunately, it doesn't help YOU.
Let me assure you, your urge to care for someone is genuine - but don't let it be the only joy in your life. Explore hobbies, nature, working out. Making music, writing poetry and lyrics has always helped me express my loneliness and left me feeling at least a little "lighter" in the heart when friends and loved ones are missing. Physical exertion in working out (or hiking?) releases chemicals similar to endorphins that provide a lift of mood. At the least, a myriad hobbies will fill time that you would otherwise spend thinking about how miserable you are.
Moreover, if you feel that you want to fight for something, do it. Start/join an activist group, write in a blog about issues that concern you which you never get to express, or simply have some friends over for dinner to discuss how messed up the world is for a 20 year old. I'm 24...I all I know is that engaging myself and at least trying some of these things - trying to LIVE life, is the only way I've ever felt satisfied with myself...even if I only work out and write music in short spans at a time, those are the good times! And when you get out there and DO things, there's a better chance you'll meet someone with similar needs. good luck :-)
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i think ur going through a phase i am just kidding lol but seriously this stuff happens and good for u, u r drug free ( just in case u want to know women like men who r clean and dont drink) but anyway u r alone and just need to meet that speacial person.
You sound like my daughter, 23.
She has no friends, except on her internet game.
But she has no job, and is letting her bills pile up.
I don't think she feels like she belongs in society either so she is on a fantasy game all the time.
It scares me that she may get depressed.
I think people your age just need to try different things to find their place. Get a decent job and prove that you can do it on your own. It takes work to be successful. You can't sit around and let it come to you, it won't.
Sounds like you are just growing up.
ur just paranoid!
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