About 2 years he suffered from depression... thats when we first started dating and we got through it together.. he told me i was the only one who could make him feel better and that he could talk to. The past few days we've been fighting. He generally is a happy guy.. he told me that he feels screwed up. That he can't feel some emotions. He can't feel extreme happiness.. like he doesnt know what it feels like. I quote "I feel fucked up in the head". I mean should i be concerned. I love him to death and i just want him to be happy you know. Could this be his depression coming back? He also related to not being with me and commiting suicide. And then when i questioned him about it he said he was sorry and he'd never think like that again. Imean i love him so much.. should i try to tlak to him about it? Encourage him to get help? What could this be? He also saidhe could be happy one sec and then it could completely goaway. Should this be something he works thru before collegein the fall?
Answer:
He needs help and he may never be right in the head. Stand by him as long as he does not show any possible signs of danger to you. Look at the recent Chris Benoit case. There is hope, but don't put yourself in jeopardy.
Suggest to your boyfriend that he go see a counselor, if he is more comfortable having you there with him most will allow you to go until he feels safe. Nobody will know for sure if he suffers from clinical depression until he is seen by someone, but in most scenarios if he feels like something is wrong it usually is.
if that is when you first got together, he may be wondering about other things, people.you helped him through a lot and he feels like he owes you for that and if he would leave you he would be hurting you...he doesn't want to do that...so he gets depressed cause of that.maybe he sees no way out.always make sure you give him room to do his free will, he will love you for it
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