Does anybody here understand...?
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hey, i think there is nothing wrong with suicide under the right circumstances, my grandfather killed himself one day when my grandmother went to the post office...he did it because he had colon cancer, and he didnt want to suffer, and watch others around him suffer from his pain.it took alot of guts to do that (his children were all grown) and my mother completely understood.b/c my grandfather was an accomplished pharmacist, and made the most of his life, he died two years before i was born, but i know alot about him, he died at 80 somethin years old.so yes i understand suicide...and you never know what this man was going through, so he could have many reasons for committing it, and please dont say its selfish, its not, i think he was even more of a man to be able to do that in the first place..hope i helped
he let the worst get to him, instead of fighting back, so.he lost a battle against himself..
its eaiser to kill yourself rather than die trying to survive. that guy was weak. or he was tweaking. depression is a motherf*cker.
for some reason, he felt that he had no hope left - that his life would never get better. He may have even felt that his sons would be better off with him dead.
I understand how it seems selfish to you, but when he did this, he probably didn't see any other options. Really.
Only the participant is in a position to understand the motivation, and that is likely an unrealistic view.
I think that the suicide often wants to hurt someone they feel is hurting them. They may want sympathy. They may just see no way out of a hopeless situation.
Being judgmental is not a solution, may be part of the cause.
When my mother died (no, not a suicide) I called one of my sisters on the phone to tell her and her response was "I don't need this!"
I told the b-eye-t.c.h that I was sure our mother felt very badly about inconveniencing her.
I can understand a suicide where pain is involved, or if one is surrounded by people like my sister.
I have been very depressed before so I can totally understand. While you are depressed you don't think about anything. Not your kids, spouse or anything. Nothing matters. It is really a bad place to be. When I was depressed I knew that I understood why people would do it. If you have never been that depressed than there isn't anyway you could understand. Most people say just don't think about it.. that is the problem.. when you are in that place... it doesn't feel worth living. Thank God I got help and everything is normal now.
maby he had underlying problems that he didnt care to discuss with other people. maby it was something he kept to himself, because he was embarrased about it, so he didnt see a dr. and thought the train was the best way to go. and no, im not trying to sound rude.
Not me! I will never understand it. It is heartbreaking, but there is nothing anyone can do. Here is an excerpt from a website I visited. The link is listed as the source.
"There are many, many conditions throughout a person's life that can, collectively, predispose that person toward suicide. These conditions arise from a wide variety of psychic, social, cultural, and physical factors.
One of the most common single factors is depression, which often goes unrecognized and untreated. But experts agree, most suicides grow from a multitude of causes. For example, various life stresses, changes, or disturbing events that produce feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, social isolation, inadequacy, or extreme vulnerability can contribute to a suicide.
Also, each person has his or her own moral code and set of beliefs and expectations, as well as emotional needs and desires. When someone finds it impossible to live according to his or her own beliefs about what life should be or what it should provide, then there are feelings of chaos and despair. To the person in the center of such mental anguish, suicide seems to be a way of having power over a disorderly, overwhelming life."
sad when people think they can not over come some sort of challange... it's a mindset and i can not have empathy because i can not get myself in that mind set!
but i do understand that it's a mental thing and it's no good!
i feel it's for the weak minded too!
I live in medium (4million) city and they do it all the time here!
It´s very bad for the karma to commit suicide,although there are hopeless situations,where I´d understand it...
What I hate is if they steal time from other people by holding up trafic.
Why don´t they just drown them self?
Maybe there should be suicide clinics,where one can go in dignity...
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