How to influence ppl to agree with what i say?
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i've spent years perfecting this and to suggest that there is a way to tell you about what I do over FunQA.com is silly. if I had to sum all that I've learned and use up in a short, it would be like this.
You really have to go in with a blank mind, people tend to create their initial, and sturdiest impression of you within seconds of meeting. If you just keep a grey stance until you can feel what they are about, what they like, what they want to hear, you should be ok. Agree with them verbally on some issues, nod your head on others. Never lie, you don't have to, and speak as little as possible. People learn to trust somebody who makes eye contact and listens intently and doesn't come off as somebody who needs to talk to prove themselves. Convey yourself as a strong type, somebody they could really use in their life, somebody they think they can depend on. After you've agreed with somebody on pretty much everything, you just have to ask them what it is that you want, and it works.
I don't know, this is in my line of work - I've experienced great success but also over the years I've damaged my personal reputation as being a phony. It's all in what you do. Good luck, and remember - the least amount of words you say possible is always the best. I forget who said it, but it's a famous quote
"man has one last super power, silence, use it"
say it at gunpoint
Speak intelligently, articulate well and cite references
choke them into it.lol i'd agree real quick!
plead a good, intelligent, resonable case - that appeals to them - good luck
Say that if they agree with you, they get a prize.
Everyone loves prizes.
Say something influencial
Start by typing normal, not like a text messager.
use terms that are vague and open ended. be specifically general make it sound like a good idea, back it up with logic. Dont' pick sides. make it sound like you all have the same idea, which just happens to be your idea. that is how politicians do it, though they often just sound silly. When u can use facts, and of course a good vocabulary doesn't hurt either. good luck.
Think hard about exactly what you're trying to convince people of before you start talking, and think about the reasons they should agree with you.
Don't tell them that they're wrong and that you're right. Don't try and make a huge point. What you want to do is find a small piece of common ground -- just one small detail that you can get them to agree with you about. Once you have that detail, your foot is in the door. Take small steps in building up your argument, so the person understands and is taken by your logic each step of the way.
Speak the same "language"
Threaten them,
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Become rich, or make "them" rich,
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POOP!
now go back and read the first letter of each line for the REAL answer...
you can only have so much influence if you really want to influence more humans then find the weak ones or followers. You will not change my mind i'm subborn and well will disagree to deisagree sometimes! ask my partner! lol
you can influece or educate someone on somthing by profiding fact on what ever your talking about!
somet things that you can try untill your blue inthe fact to influence but will not suceed will be
religion, politics, abortion, and personal values! these are personal choices and unless fact is brought to the table they will see it there way!
First, know what you're talking about. Do the research, have the facts at hand and make those references/footnotes available to the people you present to. Second, involve the others. Listen to their points of view and don't brush them aside. They may even have good points that you can incorporate into your idea. Don't bully people. Third, speak to your audience's level. In other words, don't use lingo and jargon they won't understand. But don't be too simplistic if you have an audience at or above your level.
You can't always get people to agree with you, so don't expect to. Be open to the possibility that thier viewpoint might also have some validity. Argue intellegently and back up what you say with solid research or evidence, then, even if they don't agree with you, they will at least respect that your viewpoints are well thought out.
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