I am fed up with other peoples anger and problems messing up my life want can i do?
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Avoid those people if at all possible. Then become more mature and better than them. Just make sure you don't hang around them if you don't have to. Maybe one day you can move somewhere better and never have to deal with them again. Just remember that you should love your enemy also.
Larry J7-- hahaha
Ignoring them comes to mind.
Sounds like you have a problem and maybe just a little anger about other people's anger !!
And, it sounds like you'd really like to "mess up their lives" just a little !!
Sound familiar ??
Instead of letting their anger reflect upon and off of you, let it pass through you like a breeze through an open door. It's really your choice.
Because you have been nice in the past, people think you are a good listener... you get involved.
1) If they come to tell you their problems, make them face that it is their fault (it worked for me)
2) If not, tell them to go to a psychologist/counsellor... (it worked for me)
3) Be unpleasant to them. (it worked for me)
I was the handkerchief of everybody, and helping without any reward.
I recommend you a book that was written in the 80's "PULLING YOUR OWN STRING" by Wayne Dyer.
(it worked for me.)
First learn how to spell.
Move elsewhere preferably to where the religious and/or ethnic composition of the community is different OR where this is a different history of settlement. Leave Baltimore Md and go to Dover De, for example, or vice versa.
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