How do i love myself when i feel so ugly?
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anti-depressants, but don't take the factory-made drugs, take st. johns wort, they're herbs, and no side effects
same way your mom loves you
Everybody is ugly on the inside. Concentrate on other people.
And be smarter.
why are u being so negative.. we have to move on, when you look at yourself in the past, u will feel silly if u think that u are ugly.
look on the bright side
look in the mirror everyday and say "hello gorgeous".eventually, u'll start to feel it. do things for yourself and not for other ppl...smile, laugh...be kind to ppl, help others, dress in ways that make u feel good about urself, make a list of all the great things about u like urself like ur smile, or ur sense of humor...list your talents...there are lots of things u can do to boost ur self-esteem. just remember that ur a special person and u r loved. u r one of a kind and irreplaceable and the world would not be the same without you. think of all the things you could do and be and strive to make the world a better place. that in itself will make u feel better about urself because u will be making a difference whether u realize it or not.
I've got an expensive photo shoot session and I've been feeling much better since then... that was 7 years ago!
Make a list of 10 things per day for which you are grateful. Do this for a month. If you are healthy and can move around, you can be greatful for that. You have many things to be grateful for. And know that the pictures of models in magazines are run through graphics programs. They don't look that good either!!
I know it may be hard to accept your appearance but just know that everyone around you will still love you no matter how you look. Just believe in yourself a little. Or you could try a new look and give yourself a mini makeover so you can boost your self confidence. People might even notice and then you'll feel great! And people will also notice that you're more confident in yourself.
Yay.
hope that helps :)
Think of your good points, not your bad ones. Abandon your negative thoughts, and tell yourself that you're the best. Then you will love yourself.
"Love yourself"? That's narcissistic mumbo jumbo. Sorry. You will never appreciate what you do and become by "loving yourself" but by contributing to society and helping others. Step back from the mirror and get out and lend a hand where it's needed much more. You will never be as beautiful as you think you should be so stop trying to obtain it. If you play a part, you're gorgeous... no matter what that person in the mirror says.
Choose something that you like to do, or would like to know more about. Practice doing it, or learning it until you become really, REALLY good at it, better than anyone else you know. That's one way to build self-esteem.
Another thing you can do is get involved in a cause. Volunteer to help in something that interests you - mentor a child, build a house for a needy family, plant trees in a park...Ask, "How can I help?" follow through, and see what that does for you.
b/c u like ur personality more then ur looks, other people most likely do also
it's just all in your head.
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