How to potentially dangerous person during pregnancy?

my wife and I are expecting our first child. we bonded with another couple who is also expecting and they introduced us to this lady whom they have reached out to. trouble is, she has been displaying very distubring traits. she says she is very angry with people, that she wants to kill herself and sometimes she gets so angry she thinks she could hurt someone. she just confided in my wife that she killed her pets ( ducks, etc.) with a crowbar when she went through an extreme depressive/angry state as a teen. this lady constantly says she is jealous that my wife and our other friend are pregnant and married. personally i think she is a walking time bomb. we always just figured her to be a bit odd and an outcast but she dropped the bomb about actually killing another living being out of anger.. on us just a couple days ago. we are nervous now because she is on the invite to our baby shower. how do we handle her without setting her off? we don't wish to have any further contact with her.

Answer:
You already invited her? Make sure she is not allowed in until other guests are present, and that she is not the last to leave. Do not hesitate to call the police if she says anything that makes you nervous.

You must never allow your child around this woman- never.

I would tell her that you would like for her to seek professional help and that because you're not equipped to help her with her very serious problems you feel it would be best if she sought counselling before you decided whether or not to see her again.

But frankly? It's too dangerous to your wife and child. You need to break off this relationship.

I would definitely try to stay away from her as much as possible. You don't want her to do anything dangerous to you and your wife. If possible, I would look into getting her counseling, because you don't want her to harm anyone else either.

yea you should probably stop talking to her

She probably couldnt do any harm at the shower-with all of the other people out there. From there on, keep your distance from her. She sounds like she'd be dangerous to anyone she came in contact with. Be busy, get caller id-do anything you have to-to avoid her.

Do you know if she has any relatives that you might speak to?..she really needs to see a doctor..Give her as much distance as possible, I know you do not want to set her off, but do not put your family or yourself in jeopardy either.
If you can not keep her from coming to the baby shower, at least monitor her behavior at all times.you do not need this right now, during what should be the happiest time of your life..Definitely get her some help..be careful and good luck..congratulations on your new addition..thank you

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