I don't know how to exactly explain this feeling, but please help...?
Someone please be nice and help :)
Thanks
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I think its natural to have these thoughts from time to time...not on a regular basis. You may just be feeling a bit stressed about your busy schedule, take some time to relax, just hang out with your friends without necessarily having somewhere specific to be, something to do - just relax.
I'm 27 now, but when I was in high school it seemed like there was always somewhere to go, something to do, people to see, there was soccer, homework, studying, tests, softball, etc. Its easy to get overwhelmed and think about something on the darker side. But, when I would think about stuff like that - I also thought of if choose to leave this world, how would my family react, my friends - how sad they would be. See my maternal grandmother made that choice and she left us of her own will before I was born. I wish I had the chance to get to know her...
I try to always look at the positive side of things, we all get bummed out from time to time and that's okay!
Just keep your chin up, slow down a bit - you're too young to be suffering from burn out! Enjoy these years, they'll be some of your most fond memories! Take care!
What's that phrase, you may one person to the world - but for one person you may be the whole world...
There is a point to life, you just have to find what your purpose is. Just remember that you may be someones angel. If you make only 1 person a little happier through out your entire life than consider it a success. Keep Smiling it makes people wonder what you have been up to and remember a smile is contagious.
Dude it's depression, it's not a wierd thing but it's always serious. You need a lot of good talking and support from friends, family, adults and professionals. At your age there are so many thoughts, emotions and hormones going every which way. Feelings are great but they are not meant to be held inside. Start talking and allow yourself to get some help. All you have to do is ask.
Who cares if tomorrow will pass by so fast? Your going to have fun your whole life and not to mention it's not as if your going to live until your 18 or something, you'll live until the old age of 70-something. If tomorrow's going to pass by really fast then atleast have some fun! Life isn't for moping like some kinda sad sack,life is for living. And about those wierd thoughts just ignore them, it's not like they matter all that much anyway!
You may be going through depression even though you still have happy positive days. It is crucial that you talk to a medical professional about this and if that is not an option, a teacher, guidance counselor or your parents can help. Don't let it get you to the point where it starts effecting your performance at school, on the field, and with your family and friends. Growing up is tough...but this can be dealt with. Don't panic and remember...talk it over with someone soon!
Hi...what you are describing is completely normal..I think we all have those feelings from time-to-time. When you are a teenager and trying to find "your way"..and your body is changing so rapidly..all those hormones can really get a little "wacky"...you know? And can make you think some strange thoughts now-and-then.
You are becoming an adult..and you are really beginning to think like one, to be honest, by what you've said. Just know that everyone, at one time or another..and some to more of a degree than others..have felt EXACTLY like you do...
I'm comforted by the fact that you seem very well-adjusted..and I appreciate the fact you can spell, structure a sentence properly and get your point across succinctly.
Not many your age these days can accomplish that..(or are too lazy!)...
You may benefit from some volunteer work with young people who are handicapped, disadvantaged, or immigrants...to give you something in which to "believe" in..and to help you believe in yourself...
You're normal...you're fine...and I have feeling you have a wonderful life ahead of you...
You are alive!
My boy, this is how you know you are human. Your mind is sharp and telling you that something isn't right. You will feel overwhelmed, restless, and empathetic to the point of suffering until you begin to act on it. I was about your age or a little younger when I first started feeling that way (I was still in dance and cheerleading, dating, but always had thoughts of my death and even tried on one occasion).
I began to get involved in human rights activism and read a lot of books about American youth culture (you MUST read Kalle Lasn's "Culture Jam"). Today, as I live in Africa and work for a non-profit humanitarian organization, I am still very familiar with these feelings but I have found their name and purpose.
You are one of the special ones who has not been turned off yet. Run with it...
firstly, you are not the first lad to feel like this. You sound like a great person, who is fun to be around. Do you have a close friend who you could talk to, maybe you may find they feel the same. At 15 there are so many changes going on in your life that sometimes it can be hard to comprehend them all. take one thing at a time and see if you can resolve it, or even rationize it so it doesnt seem so important. Life can be tough but it can also be fantastic. there is a brilliant time ahead for you. So try to put all these pressures into some sort of order. Take each one and see how you can deal with it. Who could help you? Can you speak to family, friend or teacher. I am pleased you are popular at school. being popular is a fantasic trait and it means people like you. Just remember that, always. I believe it is an amazing thing to play sports. It allows you to let off steam and thrive at being good. I think you have a lot to look forward to, and should look at this difficult time as a temporary period of time, which you will overcome, because you are a strong, proactive lad. Good Luck
I know what u feeling, i am too.sorry, i just needed to what other ppl would have to also say about this. I do have friends,lots of them... and i have my life planned out and everything but still feels empty and i dont care what might happen to me 2morrow. I think that if friends arent enough 4 u then ,u just need to get a special friend. Believe me when i tell u ,that when you find a truthful, trustworthy friend.TAKE 'M. although most friends seem that way, they are not. When u find this person you will be able to share all ur life secrets, ull feel much better.
Or maybe its just love thats missing in ur life.either way if friends arent enough u just havent found the right person to call a true friend.
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