Why do I feel so out of place in a world so open about their sexuality?
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i think there is lots of men who value that. hollywood has a way of glamorizing their lifestyle. they try to make it seem like the whole world lives like them.
I am too, its soo uncomfortable!
Yes, people like you (and me) are valued.
It's sad that many women feel they have to expose themselves to get the attention they want, which is the wrong kind of attention.
Absolutely!
But here's the problem...Many women wait for a man to APPROACH THEM...This is backwards and wrong, it goes against animal and human nature...
Males do not choose the females.
Males make themselves available, and women CHOOSE THEM. The reason our gene pool is so full of bimbos and macho-psychos is that women have forgotten that in the realm of love THEY HAVE THE POWER TO CHOOSE WHO THEY WANT, and because they seem to fear rejection, or have started "thinking like men" (euphimism for "not thinking") they seem to take whoever seems interested or choose jerks...
I personally feel that if a woman is too open with her sexuality then I'm not going to want to "sleep with everyone she's slept with" anyway...
Guys, we shouldn't be going for a record here...
There's a sweet spot right in the middle. Where you give some sexual hints here and there but keep a cool the whole time. No need to be running around with a short skirt and no underwear on.
That would be giving off the image of sllut such as paris hilton and that spears chick. And to me, that's very unattractive.
If it helps at all, I don't think the world is very open with their sexuality as they lead it on to be. So many women out there don't know a thing about their own bodies. They're so caught up in what the media is telling them what 'sexy or hot' is that they're not paying attention to their own unique bod. I think with a lot of women who seem sexual are actually very self concious, 'closed' people, from the ones I've met. And alot of people only engage in sexuality when they're stoned or drunk...thats not being open at all. I don't think people have to brag about what they do or flaunt it to feel sexy.
as long as you're comfortable in your own skin and pay attention to your needs, thats whats important in sexuality.
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