I have a problem with cutting?
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what's curious about your question is that for most of it you are defending cutting, except that you start saying "i know that its bad". that is one thing to think about. where did that come from?
i have had many friends who self harmed, and i myself did for awhile -- so i understand that it is a coping method, and it does give temporary relief - the problem is that you are creating a new kind of pain that you control to distract from your inner pain, rather than using a positive coping method that gets you working towards feeling better permanently
helpful pages for desperate moments:
http://www.siari.co.uk/links_pages/self-...
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hun get therapy
because if you accidently cut too deep you'd die.
You need to seek help. group therapy works very well for things like this.
It does make u feel better but sooner or later it will hurt u more then it will help you
because its an addiction
and you can actually die from it
you could hit a vein and the blood loss
it isnt very good nor healthy for your body either
It's a way of making your pain release from your body..it can get out of hand, or create havoc in your life.you need to talk about it and get help. One thing that might work for you is an ice cube.rub it on your skin instead of cutting. And then talk to someone!
cutting is like drinking. it's bad for u and sometimes it can make u feel good. but is it worth it? cutting is a really bad addiction and u could die from all of that blood loss. get help before something bad happens.
For manny reasons:
1) Its not good for you.
2) Its addicting.
3) It is very dangerous
4) It leaves Scars and some day you might want to forget about what had happened.
5) If you would cut to deep you could kill yourself.
You really should get some help, it may not seem like it now, but some day you will really regret this.
What do you search for? I am not sure what to tell you about that except that it can't be good and just because you survive it once does not mean that you will survive it every time.Were are you from? Send me an email if you want to talk.
because cutting makes you bleed you can loose alot of blood that way. and it takes 6 weeks to make the red blood cells that would have been lost so it IS a slow suicide due to lack of blood.
okay, this topic hits close to home for me. one of my best friends, a year older than me, (not the one with CF, another one) used to cut herself, and i'd have her promise me she wouldn't do it again, know why?
she used to cut her wrists. one time, she cut too deep and it hurt her badly. her arm hurt 24/7 and it scared her. sure, you survive, but if you make one little mistake, you could severely damage your wrist, or wherever you cut.
try talking to people, good friends, or someone.
if you aren't comfortable talking to your parents or other relatives about it, just find a friend you can trust that won't go around telling everyone about it.
talking about it and just explaining everything that's on your mind is alot better than physically hurting yourself. you might think thats making you feel better, but if you keep cutting even after it makes you 'feel better' once, it never did. because if you felt bad enough to cut again, it didn't help. cuttings not going to get you anything except a bit of pain and blood.
please, don't do it.
you could seriously hurt yourself someday and you could regret it.
becuz it has somthin to do with ur brain and shows that your messed up in the head...it doesnt mean that its ur fault...maybe someone else is causing u pain...jus try to get help even tho u dont think yew need it!
Hmmm.. I'd consider it bad because it can be an addiction and that's never good. And although I don't know if it really is that bad for the body I suppose it always sounds bad when harming yourself in some way.
its your way of dealing with stress. when you cut, two feel good neurotransmitters are released,which are the side effects of cutting. What you need is a therapist who specializes in affect management. its teaches you better ways to cope with stress.
I was in your same situation a few years ago and was admitted to a mental institution several different times. It was because I was depressed and they finally found me the right medication.
I still have scars from when I cut myself and although they are disappearing slowly, it sucks to have them.
ok you must have gotten hurt at one time. your self ,ex boyfriend,abused etc ,time to quit this habit , go see your doctor, it doent cure the pain it only casue more ,,,,
i actually agree with you. it helps to make you feel better and you are still alive after doing it so why is it considered to be bead by so many people?
for many reasons the main one being that one time you could actually end up killing yourself and it is addictive once you get started. it can also end up controlling your life in a way that you never thought that it could. all you will start to think about is hiding the scars from the people that you know and care about and care about you so that they dont find out what you do to yourself. you will turn to cutting yourself at any problem you have because you know that it is a quick way to make yourself feel better.
But if it is so bad then why would anybody want to do it right? some people who don't cut dont know or understand why the people who do cut do it. they dont understand how causing pain and injury to yourself can make you feel better, yet it does. sometimes when you dont know why you are feeling a certain way or you dont feel the way that you think that you should you would turn to cutting yourself because it is a way for you to make things more real to you and at the same time providing some release for the way that you are feeling.
Cutting is mostly consider to be associated with some sort of depression and although it does make you feel good it should be treated because it does affect your life for the worse even though you may not be able to see it that way.
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